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My take: She thought, sure lets get together on a whim. Had fun, enjoyed making out. Thought about and decided she did not want to pursue anything. Probably not any real reason, just was not there for her.
I ve been in that position myself when i was a late teen (before my 2 LTRs) and if i went out with a guy and the kissing wasnt good...never wanted to see him again
The punishment for threads like this should be forced viewing of every episode of Sex in the City, back to back, over and over, until OP finally learns what turns us OFF.
The oyster eating scene comes to mind, as does the face licker episode...oh, too many to count as the women work their way through the "men" of NYC and their assorted faults and failings.
OP, just on a limb here, but maybe your attitude ("I thought she wanted to bone") was offensive to her.
Or using her toilet (when you didn't even need to) made her feel all icky.
1. She probably thought you were looking for sex as you asked to come into her house then started making out with her. For some that is too much too soon, and she may have been turned off by that even though things went well before.
2. She actually didn't like you as much as she portrayed.
You could do everything right on a date, but if you push the physical part before someone is ready-you are asking for trouble.
I actualy think it may have been the opposite. are there really any adult women who invite a guy up after a date and expect him not to make a move? Please dont take this the wrong way, but ive been in situations when women said no, but secretely wanted me to continue trying to advance. They told me as much later on. Sometimes women put up these fake barriers to seperate men from boys, as they truly only want a persistent type of man who can see through their playful behavior. It takes some skill and know how to be able to tell the difference, and i am not advocating being a jerk and pushing things forward without womans consent. Ive just been around the block more than a couple of times, and these were some of the easiest games to decipher.
But she didnt invite him up. He invited himself with the "I need to use your bathroom". She could have really not been comfortable with it but felt obligated. How many people are going to say sorry you will have to go to the closest station to pee.
Then when he put the heavy moves on her she could have become even more uncomfortable with the situation and thought he just wanted to get in her pants. Which apparently he did. Perhaps thats not what she had in mind.
I dont think "what are you doing later" means lets go to my place and bone.
yeah, sometimes women play games and sometimes they dont.
She didn't like the way you kissed. You're kissing didn't do it for her.
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