What did I do wrong in this date? (men, sex, couple)
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TShe even asked me, "so what are you doing later tonight?" (i assumed she wanted to bone, since it was already 11pm).
I think you assumed wrong. Even if she was tempted, you messed up your chances by trying the first night. Even if she had wanted it and you turned her down, she would have respected you more and given you a chance at the second date.
I actualy think it may have been the opposite. are there really any adult women who invite a guy up after a date and expect him not to make a move? Please dont take this the wrong way, but ive been in situations when women said no, but secretely wanted me to continue trying to advance. They told me as much later on. Sometimes women put up these fake barriers to seperate men from boys, as they truly only want a persistent type of man who can see through their playful behavior. It takes some skill and know how to be able to tell the difference, and i am not advocating being a jerk and pushing things forward without womans consent. Ive just been around the block more than a couple of times, and these were some of the easiest games to decipher.
Maybe I'm a weirdo, but I can make out with someone when there is no spark and I don't do it to get 'aroused'. Anything more than that requires more attraction and 'spark', but kissing? I consider it a fun activity to be shared between people.
I hope not. I'm okay with casual make outs myself.
The I need to use your bathroom excuse is so lame. I'm a woman who lives alone and no matter how well the date goes I don't invite men over to my place on the first date. It's a safety issue and decent guys don't put women in that position. Especially if you met online and it was the first time you'd ever spent time together face to face. Maybe you made her uncomfortable or maybe you were a rotten kisser. That can be a deal breaker.
One of the first girls I made out with told me that I sucked at it. She didn't know that I was inexperienced, but I don't see why that would be a deal breaker when it's something that people get better at the more they do.
I actualy think it may have been the opposite. are there really any adult women who invite a guy up after a date and expect him not to make a move? Please dont take this the wrong way, but ive been in situations when women said no, but secretely wanted me to continue trying to advance. They told me as much later on. Sometimes women put up these fake barriers to seperate men from boys, as they truly only want a persistent type of man who can see through their playful behavior. It takes some skill and know how to be able to tell the difference, and i am not advocating being a jerk and pushing things forward without womans consent. Ive just been around the block more than a couple of times, and these were some of the easiest games to decipher.
Nah, they are just on a witch hunt.
But if you can decipher those games then you are a prophet.
If a woman says no, I assume they mean no. That game is just too dangerous to play, even if I "knew" that they were trying to find that "persistent" man.
I go for women who actually do not have fantasies of getting raped.
Women, If you want some from me, do not say NO!!
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