Slept with 2 people on a short break (married, girl, therapy)
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That I think is right. I have not required respect. I'm not thinking that would change anything but maybe it would make this a little easier. I really feel like I have built my whole life around this and now when I leave I will have nothing. I will be homeless with very little money. I know that is not anything that will keep me here. I just am not even ready to accept this yet, like my my mind it is still not fully accepting it. I feel like i'm in a little bit of a daze, I even have to go back over this post and keep fixing simple typo's. I feel very lost and alone right now.
Look it would be very abnormal if you didnt feel violated considering you care a great deal about this woman and her child, but as the other members have indicated, you can not turn a "carefree" person like your fiancee' into a wife.
Pursuing this relationship any further will be setting yourself up for future heart aches. If you think you are hurting now, wait until she grows the courage to start doing in the home you share, in front of you, and if by chance you then have a child together, you'd be wondering if the baby is yours....you may even have other guys telling you about your "wife's" favorite sexual position..... *i'm reaching here..just to make a point* but I hope you see where we are coming from.
She is not good for you, staying in the relationship because its convenient is just plain, permit me to be blunt, but staying is just stupid...unless you are not being entirely honest with us....
You're fiancee is a lose woman. Marrying her will bring you misery, cuckolded children, and an eventual loss of 50% of your salary when she leaves you. As such, you must leave her now.
She is not good for you, staying in the relationship because its convenient is just plain, permit me to be blunt, but staying is just stupid...unless you are not being entirely honest with us....
I am being honest. This is what has happened. I'm sitting here right now and she will be home in 90 minutes and I'm going to go over everything that I am feeling and what I think we would look like in 5 years (I don't think good, at least me being very unhappy). I already have prepared myself that I might need to stay in a hotel tonight because I don't know if I will be able to stay here, my choice.
The one thing I always said is please don't sleep with anyone else, I already have trust issues. I feel like I'm trying to keep myself in denial about this because I know how much it is going to hurt when it sets in.
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