Fear of rejection.. (married, 2015, looking, nice)

[danielpalos]

Originally Posted by WantToHaveALife

yeah because i don't have any male friends that are successful with women

In my case, I have learned to appreciate Man's invention of money and the institution of money based markets, and Capitalism, at the same time. It can be convenient to hookup with nice girls of capital based morals to spend some quality time with us, when we have enough money.

[danielpalos]

Originally Posted by Maverick2012

I've recently discovered, through a very traumatizing experience, that this is absolutely correct.

It is just one more reason why I believe mostly nice guys can never have too many (girl) friends.

[danielpalos]

Originally Posted by WantToHaveALife

why is it okay for women to get validation from men but not okay for men to get validation from women?

I am not sure what is up with that, either. It seems they only want to deny and disparage mostly nice guys and give bad boys a free pass.

In any case, I still love being able to be a good capitalist, when I have enough money.

[WantToHaveALife]

Originally Posted by danielpalos

In my case, I have learned to appreciate Man's invention of money and the institution of money based markets, and Capitalism, at the same time. It can be convenient to hookup with nice girls of capital based morals to spend some quality time with us, when we have enough money.

so just focus on making money?

[BradPiff]

The vast majority of Guys In America have to get over their fear of rejection from a pretty early age or else they'll have no success with women.

[danielpalos]

Originally Posted by WantToHaveALife

so just focus on making money?

Well, my perception may be more one sided than it usually would be, since making money has been more challenging for me lately. However, practice relating to women is still practice with women. I am learning to just ask them to be girls and friends at the same time, even if only for a little while.

[WantToHaveALife]

Originally Posted by BradPiff

The vast majority of Guys In America have to get over their fear of rejection from a pretty early age or else they'll have no success with women.

yeah, the guys who are successfull with women in college, or high school, i'm guessing they started in middle-school?

[Doll Eyes]

Originally Posted by danielpalos

I am not sure what is up with that, either. It seems they only want to deny and disparage mostly nice guys and give bad boys a free pass.

In any case, I still love being able to be a good capitalist, when I have enough money.

I would venture to guess 85% to 95% of you aren't nice guys in the first place. So you can just drop that now.

[Rhenzanite]

Originally Posted by Doll Eyes

I would venture to guess 85% to 95% of you aren't nice guys in the first place. So you can just drop that now.

I have yet to meet a man who referred to himself as a 'nice guy' who was actually a nice person.

[BradPiff]

Originally Posted by WantToHaveALife

yeah, the guys who are successfull with women in college, or high school, i'm guessing they started in middle-school?

The earlier the better, for me it was my Sophmore year of HS. The longer yor still scared of getting rejected the worst off you are