Fear of rejection.. (male, advice, conversation, good looking)

[Info Guy]

Originally Posted by Ro2113

And that's why I won't play the game.

If you are a guy then they you are out of luck.

[danielpalos]

Guys don't need to play the game if they have enough money.

[Moe'sTavern]

Originally Posted by danielpalos

Guys don't need to play the game if they have enough money.

Yea, but some still do anyway.

[danielpalos]

Sure, but wanting to is different from having to.

[WantToHaveALife]

Einstein said the definition of insanity is doing the same-thing over and over again and expecting different results, the hardest part in regards to rejection by women, is trying to find out specifically why you got rejected so you won't make the same mistake again when you move on to the next girl

[fleetiebelle]

Originally Posted by WantToHaveALife

Einstein said the definition of insanity is doing the same-thing over and over again and expecting different results, the hardest part in regards to rejection by women, is trying to find out specifically why you got rejected so you won't make the same mistake again when you move on to the next girl

For most men, it's highly likely that he hasn't made a mistake. That particular woman simply didn't like him or wasn't available. The next woman will be different, because women are not all the same, want the same things or are attracted to the same men.

[Ro2113]

Originally Posted by Info Guy

If you are a guy then they you are out of luck.

I was never obligated to play in the first place. When you've been alone as long as I have you learn to be by yourself so no I'm not out of luck.

[WantToHaveALife]

Originally Posted by fleetiebelle

For most men, it's highly likely that he hasn't made a mistake. That particular woman simply didn't like him or wasn't available. The next woman will be different, because women are not all the same, want the same things or are attracted to the same men.

well how do I know if i need to correct, change my approach, the way i talk?

[Info Guy]

Originally Posted by Ro2113

I was never obligated to play in the first place. When you've been alone as long as I have you learn to be by yourself so no I'm not out of luck.

Yes but you can change that.

[Ro2113]

Originally Posted by Info Guy

Yes but you can change that.

Why? I've learned to be happy alone. What do you think I meant by learning to be by yourself? Or are you do one of those people who don't think it's possible for people to be happy by themselves?