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Old 09-12-2012, 05:18 PM
 
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Why? I've learned to be happy alone. What do you think I meant by learning to be by yourself? Or are you do one of those people who don't think it's possible for people to be happy by themselves?
You can be happy with yourself but you aren't restricted to have a woman in your life.
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Old 09-12-2012, 06:54 PM
 
Location: ATL
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The best way is to talk to as many girls that you know will not give you their number so you will get immune to it. After a while it will not matter
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Old 09-12-2012, 06:56 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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The best way is to talk to as many girls that you know will not give you their number so you will get immune to it. After a while it will not matter

I never heard of anything like this before.
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Old 09-12-2012, 06:57 PM
 
Location: Gotham
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I never heard of anything like this before.
me either.
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Old 09-12-2012, 07:03 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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me either.

well maybe he's onto something new that actually works. who knows.
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Old 09-12-2012, 07:04 PM
 
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The best way is to talk to as many girls that you know will not give you their number so you will get immune to it. After a while it will not matter
That would be the very good looking ones.
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Old 09-13-2012, 09:12 PM
 
Location: US, California - federalist
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well how do I know if i need to correct, change my approach, the way i talk?
Usually, we get feedback from women when we have any form of conversation at work or school, for example. However, you should feel free to ask any girl friends for advice as to how you come across to women.

In my case, I don't take women very seriously anymore if they are not doing me, and I am not required to associate with them through work or school, etc. In fact, you might say that I think women tend to lie to us more, if they are not doing us. So, I have to take what women say with a grain of salt in many cases, but especially online.
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Old 09-16-2012, 01:42 PM
 
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Usually, we get feedback from women when we have any form of conversation at work or school, for example. However, you should feel free to ask any girl friends for advice as to how you come across to women.

In my case, I don't take women very seriously anymore if they are not doing me, and I am not required to associate with them through work or school, etc. In fact, you might say that I think women tend to lie to us more, if they are not doing us. So, I have to take what women say with a grain of salt in many cases, but especially online.
yeah because i don't have any male friends that are successful with women
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Old 09-16-2012, 01:47 PM
 
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In my case, I don't take women very seriously anymore if they are not doing me, and I am not required to associate with them through work or school, etc. In fact, you might say that I think women tend to lie to us more, if they are not doing us. So, I have to take what women say with a grain of salt in many cases, but especially online.
I've recently discovered, through a very traumatizing experience, that this is absolutely correct.
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Old 09-17-2012, 03:19 PM
 
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why is it okay for women to get validation from men but not okay for men to get validation from women?
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