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Old 03-19-2012, 07:13 PM
 
Location: Armsanta Sorad
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If society didn’t accept it then why does the media portray women’s violence towards men to be something cute, funny, hilarious, brave, heroic, etc. While having it the other way around creates shock, disgust, etc.? Look at the reaction of people if a man punches a woman in public vs the other way around. Society, generally speaking, accepts and justifies women being violent to men. Sure, there are exceptions.

Just a small example

Reaction To Women Abusing Men In Public - YouTube
I've seen that video many times. It would seem that most women and male feminists are perfectly okay with these double standards.

 
Old 03-19-2012, 07:15 PM
 
Location: Armsanta Sorad
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What that 6 ft dude did to Snooki was indeed cowardly. He would be wrong too if this was done to an under 5ft guy.
Why do you need to knock-out a much weaker person you can possible kill if you use all your might? It's the same as trying to pick up a fight with an old fart (someone elderly). Sure there are old people that can beat up a young person but that's the minority. Common sense should come first.

Unless they're trying a knife or trying to seriously injure you, then you don't need to overdo it. Plus isn't it assault once you use excessive force?
Example: If you only get slapped but you fully punched back, that's too much.
I wouldn't say it was cowardly. It seems like she was getting all up in his face and he did what he did. So it seems justifiable if someone does that to another who's acting in a threatening, intimidating manner.
 
Old 03-19-2012, 07:18 PM
 
Location: southern california
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Men think it's acceptable by others to be hit by women because they don't have the guts to bring attention to it, period. Grow some and walk out. Don't confuse your silence (men in general) with society's acceptance.
how sad, u view men being hit or allowing it to happen as cowardice??? its the old "be a man" thing.
did it ever occur to you that his restraint is in fact his being a man? or that other men dont talk about it out of respect?
why are we not discussing the lack of self control and the violence in women instead of discussing his manhood?
what has his manhood got to do with your bad behavior?
btw domestic violence is 50/50 unlike what the gloria steinem people were teaching 25 years ago in CPS (its all about him).
 
Old 03-19-2012, 07:29 PM
 
Location: Midwest
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Very interesting. I'm surprised more people didn't react to that kind of abuse, the constant and repeated physical blows.

But I think you can't disregard the fact that most of the time, men are stronger than women. A single slap to the face after he says something nasty doesn't register as abuse to me because what does he have to be afraid of?

Mutliple displays of abuse: definitely wrong. A single slap or maybe a punch: legally wrong but doesn't register as a problem to me.
Cause a man can defend himself against a woman. Its such a no brainer
 
Old 03-19-2012, 07:29 PM
 
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If a woman ever struck me, I'd..Help her leave my house.

No violence nor striking back, just picking her up and placing her outside of my house.
 
Old 03-19-2012, 07:30 PM
 
Location: Midwest
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how sad, u view men being hit or allowing it to happen as cowardice??? its the old "be a man" thing.
did it ever occur to you that his restraint is in fact his being a man? or that other men dont talk about it out of respect?
why are we not discussing the lack of self control and the violence in women instead of discussing his manhood?
what has his manhood got to do with your bad behavior?
btw domestic violence is 50/50 unlike what the gloria steinem people were teaching 25 years ago in CPS (its all about him).
is it that hard to just walk away? you know you can do serious damage to a woman if you were to hit her. i can't believe you are even arguing this
 
Old 03-19-2012, 07:36 PM
 
Location: Armsanta Sorad
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is it that hard to just walk away? you know you can do serious damage to a woman if you were to hit her. i can't believe you are even arguing this
It's justifiable self-defense.
 
Old 03-19-2012, 07:38 PM
 
Location: Midwest
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So? It's justifiable self-defense. And I disagree with the statement that women are weaker than men.
Typically women are weaker than men.

I don't know why you are making this so difficult. Seriously, just walk away because if you hit a woman can you do some serious damage. Its not like you are diabled and can't defend yourself.
 
Old 03-19-2012, 07:45 PM
 
Location: NJ
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nyanna is correct. And if that is not possible, surely the physical strength difference between you would enable you to grab her hands, and avoid further hits/slaps, etc.
 
Old 03-19-2012, 07:46 PM
 
Location: Armsanta Sorad
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Typically women are weaker than men.

I don't know why you are making this so difficult. Seriously, just walk away because if you hit a woman can you do some serious damage. Its not like you are diabled and can't defend yourself.
If she can inflict serious damage on a man, then a man can inflict serious damage on her.
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