Does this society look down on those who have had few sexual partners? (how to, guy)
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But do you realize how many questions you ask on here? My God.
It's ok. He makes me feel more "middle of the bell-shaped curve." I asked way more questions than my parents or teachers wanted to answer. Of that, I can assure you.
Unless you are telling everyone your business, if you keep it to yourself there is no way for the world to judge you based on how many people you've been with
Unless you are telling everyone your business, if you keep it to yourself there is no way for the world to judge you based on how many people you've been with
Unless you have a t-shirt that says, "Over 1,000,000 served." I knew a girl in college who had one like that.
Unless you are telling everyone your business, if you keep it to yourself there is no way for the world to judge you based on how many people you've been with
Exactly. Who the hell is gonna know, certainly not acquaintances. It never comes up in casual conversation.
Unless you are telling everyone your business, if you keep it to yourself there is no way for the world to judge you based on how many people you've been with
I agree. I've never had a guy I dated even ask me how many and I've never asked him. It doesn't really matter to me. It's not like I go around with a red number on my chest. If a guy I was serious with wanted to know the number I'd tell him. Otherwise I don't really see how it's anyone else's business.
I dont know that society looks down on that, but there is a double standard based on sex of the person you are talking about. For most men, it seems that less sexual partners a woman has had, the more attractive she becomes. Its exactly opposite for most women, or so Ive read and heard. Ive had very few sexual partners, 5 or 6 and am a male in my thirties. Not much into one night stands, and thanks to my (seemingly outdated by todays standards) morals and values, I have never cheated on my SO, nor have I ever accepted sometimes very strong advances from GFs and wifes of peole I know.
Society seems to look down on both, either end of the scale. The wh*re vs. the prude, it was talked about in another thread. The 'who is going know' defense doesn't hold water IRL. I barely ever got involved with the opposite sex and the situation/conversation does take place. I mean when you've had no exes to speak of, duh. This is what happens, "Don't you hate it when (insert ex bf/gf) does blank? I guess the person could lie, but that's not a good way to start. This doesn't equate to running around the street telling strangers your buisness. Not sure why this isn't more obvious.
What is there to get? Never claimed that my goal was to sleep with as many women as I can or that I have, but I can surely offer some advice. Do you think every man capable of getting most any woman he pleases, takes advantage and sleeps with thousands?
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He makes me feel more "middle of the bell-shaped curve." I asked way more questions than my parents or teachers wanted to answer. Of that, I can assure you.
