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Old 01-23-2012, 04:41 PM
 
Location: Albuquerque, NM
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Having trouble reconciling this
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It's not a contest
with this
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And as with golf scores, a lower number is better
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Old 01-23-2012, 04:51 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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Having trouble reconciling this

with this
Our OP said he feels like people with a higher number of sex partners are looking down on those with smaller numbers.

So I said - it's not a contest - so no one should be comparing themselves to others in this way in the first place.

I also wanted him to know I believe in quality over quantity. As in the sport of golf versus say basketball - a high score is not always the winning number when it comes to our sex lives.
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Old 01-23-2012, 04:53 PM
 
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Hope not. lol.

I haven't had many partners.
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Old 01-23-2012, 04:55 PM
 
Location: The western periphery of Terra Australis
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Our OP said he feels like people with a higher number of sex partners are looking down on those with smaller numbers.

So I said - it's not a contest - so no one should be comparing themselves to others in this way in the first place.

I also wanted him to know I believe in quality over quantity. As in the sport of golf versus say basketball - a high score is not always the winning number when it comes to our sex lives.
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Old 01-23-2012, 04:57 PM
 
Location: Albuquerque, NM
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Our OP said he feels like people with a higher number of sex partners are looking down on those with smaller numbers.

So I said - it's not a contest - so no one should be comparing themselves to others in this way in the first place.

I also wanted him to know I believe in quality over quantity. As in the sport of golf versus say basketball - a high score is not always the winning number when it comes to our sex lives.
But...golf is still a contest...
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Old 01-23-2012, 04:58 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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But...golf is still a contest...
Well, I'm only using the sports reference in regards to the concept of "scoring".

I think some here will get what I'm saying.
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Old 01-23-2012, 04:59 PM
 
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Some are into the promiscuous life, some are not. I'm not and am not ashamed of it. Be respectful but ignore them.
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Old 01-23-2012, 05:00 PM
 
Location: Tricity, PL
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i don't think so. I am not into the promiscuous life so i'd prefer to be with someone who has not been with dozens of women. Those who "look down" on people who have standars, values, and respect for their bodies and health are not the kind of people i want to be associated with so their opinions don't matter to me.
^^^ this!!!
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Old 01-23-2012, 05:01 PM
 
Location: The western periphery of Terra Australis
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Some are into the promiscuous life, some are not. I'm not and am not ashamed of it.
The majority always looks down on the minority. In the past anyone who was not a virgin was a '*****', now anyone who is a virgin until marriage is considered a religious weirdo, frigid, or socially incompetent. I don't like either.
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Old 01-23-2012, 05:05 PM
 
Location: Florida
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It's not a contest

And as with golf scores, a lower number is better
It's actually more like bowling. When you hit 300, you know you're the man!
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