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Old 04-28-2011, 06:15 PM
 
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Jason, seriously man, you need to grow some balls.

I don't mean that in a negative way. You definitely seem like a negative person, and yet this woman seems very interested in you. I don't understand why you wouldn't allow this ray of sunlight enter your life and give you a reason to think otherwise.

She wants to get to know you better, she deserves that opportunity to progress this further. Hell, you owe her this for just tossing her away more than a week ago.

She doesn't care that you're a virgin. She is attracted to you and you are being honest with her, a quality you cannot teach.
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Old 04-28-2011, 06:22 PM
 
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Jason, seriously man, you need to grow some balls.

I don't mean that in a negative way. You definitely seem like a negative person, and yet this woman seems very interested in you. I don't understand why you wouldn't allow this ray of sunlight enter your life and give you a reason to think otherwise.

She wants to get to know you better, she deserves that opportunity to progress this further. Hell, you owe her this for just tossing her away more than a week ago.

She doesn't care that you're a virgin. She is attracted to you and you are being honest with her, a quality you cannot teach.
Sad how a self-defeating attitude and thoughts can freeze someone from making any positive changes.

Self Sabotaging Thoughts

Jason, you are the architect of your own fate. It's never too late to change.
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Old 04-28-2011, 06:48 PM
 
Location: Central FL
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This has disaster written all over it. "Jason" needs to figure himself out before he attempts to have a relationship. Didn't he say he hadn't had a date in 20 years?

If he feels like it's "unfortunate" that this woman wants to see him again, he is just going to end up hurting her! Run, girl, run.
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Old 04-28-2011, 06:59 PM
 
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I've already called her and unfortunately she sounded extremely excited over meeting up again.
Did you tell her the reason of your behavior that night, that you are a virgin?

If you did and she was excited nevertheless, that is a good woman.

"Unfortunately"? This may be THE companion (forget sex) to grow old with.
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Old 04-28-2011, 08:22 PM
 
Location: Albuquerque, NM
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Go get laid and get on with your life. For the love of God man. You're obviously not comfortable being virgin, or comfortable getting rid of that tag. Do it with whoever and then you won't have it attached to you.
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Old 04-28-2011, 09:51 PM
 
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Well, I've been alone all this time, what difference does 20/30 years make? I've already called her and unfortunately she sounded extremely excited over meeting up again.
Your attitude stinks! Either you are depressed and don't realize it or you've given up on life.

You should be beside yourself with glee that she's excited to hear from you! That means you have another chance with her after you tell her you're a virgin.

I believe you need to go to therapy to understand why you don't want to have sex or be close to people.

You are saying you're short, you're this, you're that....and you've given up and have resigned yourself to a lonely, pathetic life. Life is too short. You need to get professional help and have a fantastic life.

You're way to young to give up on life.
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Old 04-29-2011, 04:32 AM
 
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If he feels like it's "unfortunate" that this woman wants to see him again, he is just going to end up hurting her! Run, girl, run.
I said 'unfortunately' because she's probably thinking we will be getting together and she will be disappointed, that's why I said it. I'm having her best interests into account even if you don't believe it.
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Old 04-29-2011, 05:31 AM
 
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Hon, just give the lady what she wants. Disappointment would be if you didn't.
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Old 04-29-2011, 06:05 AM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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Tell her the truth, and let her make her decision. You're deciding for her how she should feel about you.
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Old 04-29-2011, 08:48 AM
 
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I said 'unfortunately' because she's probably thinking we will be getting together and she will be disappointed, that's why I said it. I'm having her best interests into account even if you don't believe it.
Why are you so opposed to "getting together" with her? It could be the best day, week, month or 40 years of your life! C'mon, dude. Open your mind and heart up to the possibilities. You have absolutely nothing to lose. At worst things will just go back to normal for you.
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