Welcome to City-Data.com Forum!
U.S. CitiesCity-Data Forum Index
Go Back   City-Data Forum > General Forums > Relationships
 [Register]
Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
View detailed profile (Advanced) or search
site with Google Custom Search

Search Forums  (Advanced)
Reply Start New Thread
 
Old 03-15-2011, 01:00 PM
 
5 posts, read 5,026 times
Reputation: 20

Advertisements

Quote:
Originally Posted by TKramar View Post
Join him in the shower...problem solved!
excellent idea! Many men are most aroused, or are more easily aroused, at certain times of the day, and mornings are very common. Unfortunately, my clock isn't very well synch'd with my fiance, either... I'm least interested at bed time (it's time for SLEEP!) and that's when she relaxes enough to even think about sex. It's a bad cycle... I get frustrated and turn back to Rosy, then she asks why I don't pursue her (you know, after I've been laying in bed with my eyes closed for 30 minutes and THEN remembers she has a vagina)

Anyhow, so if he's a once a day guy, and he's burning that one up with a handfull of Prell, there's a problem... especially with that low of a t-stone level. Surprise him with an... 'oral' wake up, and demand to be the first one of the day! Then do it again the next day. Then the next. Eventually, he'll have the thought come across his mind... "gee, she feels waaay better than my hand!" Try working with his sex schedule for a few days, and see if that gets you anywhere. Couldn't hurt!
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message

 
Old 03-15-2011, 01:06 PM
 
Location: Mammoth Lakes, CA
3,360 posts, read 8,418,420 times
Reputation: 8600
Low T. definitely will cause a man to giggle at porn. Why? Because he has bought into the stereotype that "all men like porn and are turned on by it." Giggling deflects the issue away from the fact he's not getting an erection and is not aroused. When my husband had a T. level of 317 he wouldn't have looked at porn in a million years. He just wasn't interested.

She *HAS* found out what the problem is... her husband has a T. level of 272. What is so hard for people on this thread to get about that?
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 03-15-2011, 01:08 PM
 
Location: Mammoth Lakes, CA
3,360 posts, read 8,418,420 times
Reputation: 8600
"Surprise him with an... 'oral' wake up, and demand to be the first one of the day!"

Again... you have no experience with this issue. A man with a T. level of 272 will not want a BJ, will not get hard, and will not *** from that. They have ZERO interest in sex because of a serious medical issue.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 03-15-2011, 01:12 PM
 
Location: Indiana
1,333 posts, read 3,236,061 times
Reputation: 976
Quote:
Originally Posted by Slicktop View Post
excellent idea! Many men are most aroused, or are more easily aroused, at certain times of the day, and mornings are very common. Unfortunately, my clock isn't very well synch'd with my fiance, either... I'm least interested at bed time (it's time for SLEEP!) and that's when she relaxes enough to even think about sex. It's a bad cycle... I get frustrated and turn back to Rosy, then she asks why I don't pursue her (you know, after I've been laying in bed with my eyes closed for 30 minutes and THEN remembers she has a vagina)

I agree. I like it between 5-7 in the morning and the wife likes it between 10-12 at night. Lots of compromising goin on.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 03-15-2011, 01:21 PM
 
5 posts, read 5,026 times
Reputation: 20
Quote:
Originally Posted by Ulysses61 View Post
"Surprise him with an... 'oral' wake up, and demand to be the first one of the day!"

Again... you have no experience with this issue. A man with a T. level of 272 will not want a BJ, will not get hard, and will not *** from that. They have ZERO interest in sex because of a serious medical issue.
I respectfully disagree:

Quote:
Originally Posted by asitshouldbe View Post
I cook and clean and do all the shopping, bill paying, appointment setting, etc. The masturbation situation shines new light on the subject. I forgot about that, he masturbates every morning in the shower... We had a few disagreements about this in the past. I said if he held off on the masturbation for a while maybe he would use his desire's with me, but he said he "need's" to do it in the morning.

If he has the sex drive to do it solo, he has the sex drive to get swallowed. Again, I think the timing and his morning habits deserve looking into.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 03-15-2011, 05:14 PM
 
Location: Somewhere out there...
3,665 posts, read 8,690,849 times
Reputation: 3755
Quote:
Originally Posted by Ulysses61 View Post
Low T. definitely will cause a man to giggle at porn. Why? Because he has bought into the stereotype that "all men like porn and are turned on by it." Giggling deflects the issue away from the fact he's not getting an erection and is not aroused. When my husband had a T. level of 317 he wouldn't have looked at porn in a million years. He just wasn't interested.

She *HAS* found out what the problem is... her husband has a T. level of 272. What is so hard for people on this thread to get about that?
We just got the labs from yesterday, it went down to 236, the new dr. says its on the low side of normal, NO HRT. Seeing another doc on Thursday. What was your husbands T level when he was given therapy?
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. It is free and quick. Over $68,000 in prizes has already been given out to active posters on our forum. Additional giveaways are planned.

Detailed information about all U.S. cities, counties, and zip codes on our site: City-data.com.


Reply
Please update this thread with any new information or opinions. This open thread is still read by thousands of people, so we encourage all additional points of view.

Quick Reply
Message:


Over $104,000 in prizes was already given out to active posters on our forum and additional giveaways are planned!

Go Back   City-Data Forum > General Forums > Relationships

All times are GMT -6.

© 2005-2024, Advameg, Inc. · Please obey Forum Rules · Terms of Use and Privacy Policy · Bug Bounty

City-Data.com - Contact Us - Archive 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30, 31, 32, 33, 34, 35, 36, 37 - Top