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Old 12-05-2010, 06:36 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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True, there is a time and place for everything. but I can't be anything else than I am, even if that is being stoical.
DM me, and I will teach you...for free!
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Old 12-05-2010, 06:43 PM
 
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If you want an honest answer, I will tell you. If you are anything in real life like you are here on CD - then women probably think you're a tad weird. Just sayin'.
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Old 12-05-2010, 07:02 PM
 
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DM me, and I will teach you...for free!
Is this serious?
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Old 12-05-2010, 07:03 PM
 
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If you want an honest answer, I will tell you. If you are anything in real life like you are here on CD - then women probably think you're a tad weird. Just sayin'.
How do I come across as weird?
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Old 12-06-2010, 07:16 AM
 
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How come I don't get a date, when I have an acquaintance who I suspect is in shady business does?
shady business is fun and exciting.
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Old 12-06-2010, 07:26 AM
 
Location: Bucks, UK
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you lack any semblance of a sense of humour and come across as creep - this will be the deal breaker for almost 100% of women

for the tiny minority who aren't scared off by the above characteristic (and assuming you aren't hideously ugly), the absence of any evidence of an ability to empathise will be the clincher for the rest - women want to be able to talk, share, and feel emotions with their partner. you appear more or less devoid of emotions yourself, and you clearly have no ability to feel empathy (which may be partly why you come across creepily).

your IQ may possibly be above average, but not by nearly as much as some seem to think - you often appear to try to use floral language, but regularly get the execution wrong - it ends up coming across as pretence.

must we persist in providing further answers to the multiple self-started threads by samston? (most of which end up getting locked - so you then post an almost identical thread in another forum)
-what is wrong with me
-how do i improve
-how come everyone has a date apart from me

etc etc etc etc
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Old 12-06-2010, 02:31 PM
 
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you lack any semblance of a sense of humour and come across as creep - this will be the deal breaker for almost 100% of women
Why?
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for the tiny minority who aren't scared off by the above characteristic (and assuming you aren't hideously ugly), the absence of any evidence of an ability to empathise will be the clincher for the rest - women want to be able to talk, share, and feel emotions with their partner. you appear more or less devoid of emotions yourself, and you clearly have no ability to feel empathy (which may be partly why you come across creepily).
How so?

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your IQ may possibly be above average, but not by nearly as much as some seem to think - you often appear to try to use floral language, but regularly get the execution wrong - it ends up coming across as pretence.
It's how I express myself.
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must we persist in providing further answers to the multiple self-started threads by samston? (most of which end up getting locked - so you then post an almost identical thread in another forum)
-what is wrong with me
-how do i improve
-how come everyone has a date apart from me

etc etc etc etc
What is wrong in wanting to improve?
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Old 12-06-2010, 02:49 PM
 
Location: United States of Embarrassment
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Women, even though they will not admit it, are attracted to confident cocky men. Kind gentle men need not apply. You'll be road over immediately, and not in a good way. Always smile and laugh make them think you are the life of the party. You are the *****. And your life will got on fantastically with or without them. Don't complement them on their looks at all. Most women already think or know they are attractive. If they weren't, no men would be barking at their feet. You need to beat them at their own game. The game of hard to get.
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Old 12-06-2010, 02:51 PM
 
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Women, even though they will not admit it, are attracted to confident cocky men. Kind gentle men need not apply. You'll be road over immediately, and not in a good way. Always smile and laugh make them think you are the life of the party. You are the *****. And your life will got on fantastically with or without them. Don't complement them on their looks at all. Most women already think or know they are attractive. If they weren't, no men would be barking at their feet. You need to beat them at their own game. The game of hard to get.

So essentially be a bad boy?
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Old 12-06-2010, 02:53 PM
 
Location: United States of Embarrassment
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So essentially be a bad boy?
Yep. You need to be interesting, entertaining and fun to be around.
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