Give me advice. How do I stay from being sprung or whipped when I get in a relationship? (men, single)
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Get in a relationship first and then ask. Why do people always want to run before they walk? How do you know how you will act or why when you've never even had the experience of being in a relationship?
Get in a relationship first and then ask. Why do people always want to run before they walk? How do you know how you will act or why when you've never even had the experience of being in a relationship?
I know!! As if you can "plan" how you'll fall in love or act when you do
Easy. Set boundaries from the get-go. I've never had a bf that I've wanted to hang out with everyday of the week. So pick your days to do your own thing (hobby, family, friends etc) and tell her from the beginning that these days are set aside for other people/things.
Sprung=you're in love where you start acting different from who you normally are. Example: you buy your girlfriend 200 dollars worth of clothes when you wouldn't do that for yourself or anybody else because you're sprung.
Whipped=deeply in love where you basically lose touch with your friends, family and even yourself. She or he becomes your life. Example: You spend time with your girl everyday and rarely say anything to your friends in the last 3 months just to say what's up.
Being that I've never been in a relationship before and witnessing my comrades being held hostage by their girlfriends from the power of strong vajayjay and affection they weren't used to getting and seeing how they became different during and after their experiences. I don't want to fall a victim. I guess you can say I'm scared of being in love but hey, if it's going to make me do something I normally wouldn't do then... I might as well be a manwhore and call it a day.
Yeah I can see why you haven't been in a relationship.
Change is inevitable. You're going to want to change yourself, your priorities maybe even your friends for many reasons... including that special someone.
I say fall, get sprung and or whipped and enjoy it while you can because not having it leaves you the one duckling that has "never been in a relationship"
Location: Waukegan,il. Approx 40 miles north of Chicago.
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Oh man, Im prabaly going to get beat up saying this. Goodluck on finding a women that isent going to try and change you. Be strong in yourself. Man youre going to need it. Good luck.
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