If your 13yo daughter pierced her belly button would YOU want to know? - Parenting -Children, problems, school, daycare, behavior, age, teenagers, infants - Page 5 - City-Data Forum

JustJulia · 01-27-2009, 02:05 PM

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i would want to know. i would hope to be vigilant enough to notice that in my daughter, but i dont think you telling the mother is the best thing. it could be a lie or rumor. or she could have sanctioned it.

that might cause the other girls to turn on your daughter. you are not always around and wont be able to save her from a school yard scrap. best thing to do is leave the situation alone. besides how bad is a belly ring.

this is not a case of drug use. sex. abuse. dont go sticking your nose where it dont belong, do it for your daughters sake.

I agree.

amanda0808 · 02-09-2009, 03:40 PM

What does everyone think about mothers who go wtih their teen daughters to get their navels pierced together? Acceptable? Weird?

afoigrokerkok · 02-09-2009, 10:31 PM

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Originally Posted by amanda0808

What does everyone think about mothers who go wtih their teen daughters to get their navels pierced together? Acceptable? Weird?

Ridiculous and sending a very wrong message IMO.

FinnishAmerican · 02-11-2009, 02:17 AM

Its amazing that im not even 30 but im so conservative.
Im like those 50 year old american rednecks you see in Arkansas

But they do got a point: I dont like "piercing" or gays or non of that not-natural stuff. Its just my personal opinion.

And YES I would like to know. If she already has it, I would punish her.
If she doesnt have it YET, ima make sure there wont be one until she is 18.

afoigrokerkok · 02-11-2009, 08:00 AM

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Originally Posted by FinnishAmerican

Its amazing that im not even 30 but im so conservative.
Im like those 50 year old american rednecks you see in Arkansas

But they do got a point: I dont like "piercing" or gays or non of that not-natural stuff. Its just my personal opinion.

And YES I would like to know. If she already has it, I would punish her.
If she doesnt have it YET, ima make sure there wont be one until she is 18.

As far as I'm concerned, my daughter wouldn't be getting one until she's out of college if I'm paying her tuition and supporting her.

brokencrayola · 02-11-2009, 06:46 PM

There are far worse things a 13 yr. old could be doing than getting her navel pierced. I would want her to come to me first and tell me she was thinking about it and not doing it behind my back. If it came down to that I would probably ok it and go with her to make sure she was going to a good place that used new needles.