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Kinda surprised you didn't see this coming or talk about it ahead of time. Unless one of both of the kids is hideously ugly they'll end up "trying things out". It's pretty normal, and there is no biological connection to stop them.
You should talk to your husband about it now.
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Last edited by Miss Blue; 02-20-2017 at 07:07 AM..
Reason: off topic andpotential hijack
OP, I think this is something you and your husband should talk to a professional counselor about, then do what s/he advises. Teen siblings should not be having sex - whether they are blood-related or not.
btw removing the door is not going to solve anything at all.
Get another bed in there so they aren't sitting so close
You may find drugs. If so don't admit going into their room. Get proof otherwise.
A few of my best friends went thru a phase of using drugs with their brothers
And let me tell you, they became best friends instantly sneaking into each others rooms snorting it
Former bickerers now former druggies together. Then sit for hours doing nothing but spacing out and talking
about the word. Or some other weird task. I wasn't into drugs so it was just odd to me.
Both times it seemed to happen overnight, siblings suddenly become buddies bonding over drugs
They may be on the internet listening to x rated comedians like George Carlin
Doing anything not allowed in the home otherwise.
To make a perverted false accusation without proof, I would be fearful of ruining my relationships permanently. That's hard to get over for kids
ALSO...in case they are considering it, you've already accused them so it pushes them into doing it even more. Don't help the process along
They have nothing to loose when they already got "credit" for doing a sin, might as well do it now.
I think you should try to catch them in the act. God forbid, they aren't doing anything "bad" and you accuse them of such! It could really ruin your relationships.
I think alot of parents here or overall, have X rated minds. It is possible but not probable that anything results from sharing a bathroom
I would never use the term banging. That sounds of a perverted teenager in and of itself
Falsely accusing your children, a brother and sister of having anything but a loving relationship is DANGEROUS and CRUEL. All because they do what teenagers do, go into the room and close the door. Maybe one is even sleeping in the room, means nothing.
The truth will come out if the parent is alert enough. Then it will be time to address what happened between them as normal and natural. Go from there. Establish rules such as no closed doors. If nothing has happened, discuss things in case it needs to be headed off.
Just. Don't. Freak. Out.
It is normal behavior
Who knows, if it is true, maybe they will fall in love, marry, and have a wonderful life together.
I don't think we have x rated minds. I just think we remember how we were as teenagers. Its not totally out of the realm of possibility for two teens, unrelated, to become attracted to each other. Especially if they live together. Sometimes familiarity breeds attraction.
I don't think we have x rated minds. I just think we remember how we were as teenagers. Its not totally out of the realm of possibility for two teens, unrelated, to become attracted to each other. Especially if they live together. Sometimes familiarity breeds attraction.
With this I agree. Yet it certainly isn't the first thing which comes to my mind with the info given.
FTR, attraction to a step sibling or not, isn't wrong. It can bit of a bonus (nice feeling) considering it doesn't elevate too much into something uncontrollable
And i am glad you told her not to accuse them. It is too easy to figure out the truth without ruining a relationship. They will then feel shame just showing any normal affection with one another from here on out. I mean it would be awfully kinky for a parent to approach a child with such a perverted accusation since this is so unfounded. Gross. Too easy to learn the truth if you are patient. Teenagers aren't that smart
Last edited by NancyDrew1; 02-17-2017 at 02:51 PM..
I don’t really know how to start this off. You be the judge on am I blowing this out of proportion or no.
But I’m almost certain that my Biological son 16 and steo daughter 17 are sleeping together and by that I mean they’re ****ING!
This will be a sort of a vent, but I will show you the evidence and you help me to decide on what should I do next. I think that I’m going crazy this makes me so ANGRY!
It provided some really great tips that I haven't seen anywhere before, not only in that article but others as well. But even though I got my emotions under control I still don't know how to sort this situation out.
I don’t have any solid evidence that they are actually having sex, but it has been super weird and all of my red flags have gone off for the past few months.
It all started few months ago, I started to notice that they are spending more time together, but it was nothing big, Step Daughter helped out my son to do his homework and they watched movies together. I thought that this is really nice! They’re finally bonding after a year of living together.
But then it started to get weird. They spent a LOT of time together. I noticed that my son very often in my step daughters room and they always close the door, so I have no idea what is going on in there. I don’t really want to break the trust of my kids and don’t storm in the room, I always knock.
But last night I woke up very early because I needed the toilet, it was about half an hour before everyone in our house wakes up and I heard my son coming out of my step daughters room. My heart was pounding and I had no idea what the hell had just happened. But do you think this is normal?
I haven’t talked to my Husband about this, how could I? I don’t have any solid evidence and I can’t possibly ask the kids, because what if I’m wrong? I really don’t know what to do can you give me any tips or ideas?
Just try putting some LEGOS on the floor at night outside her room and just wait you will hear a scream when whoever is in the hallway is up. Another option would be some match box or hot wheels too mixed in with the LEGOS. Or you can set up an infa-red camera just to cover the hallway. You might want to send the son to boarding school. A direct confrontation will not end well. You could try talking to the daughter seperately? You can seek a psychologist's help. Technically since they are not blood relatives it is not incest. Weird though, tough situation.
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