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View Poll Results: Do West Indians assimilate into AA culture?
Yes, they become more like AAs 14 35.00%
No, they remain very distinct 26 65.00%
Voters: 40. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 10-23-2013, 08:37 PM
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The crazy rants remind me of a story I heard the other evening, a black "writer" who sued some Hollywood studios because they had "discriminated" against him ... whereas, really, according to many, his work was simply not good enough. Certainly, this is the case for many aspiring screenwriters, and a more balanced person would have listened to the criticisms and gone to work.

He therefore made is more difficult for other black people to gain credibility. Making us all look bad, as they say. Not that either of us would be a screenwriter. Perhaps the babies will aspire.

Also educated at Cornell, apparently.
Please don't think that one of anything can make all the others look bad. It's like when one Black person is chosen to speak for, OR give an opinion for all the others. No one person would be chosen for another group like that.
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Old 10-23-2013, 09:03 PM
 
Location: West Harlem
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Please don't think that one of anything can make all the others look bad. It's like when one Black person is chosen to speak for, OR give an opinion for all the others. No one person would be chosen for another group like that.
I refuse to rant constantly about racism but I must admit I have observed that.
People tend to totalize, and when they do, they always pick those few bad people as exemplars. It is even quite easy to observe that here.

It really does matter what every person does. I try to teach my students this above all, that everything they do matters and will have implications.
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Old 10-23-2013, 09:05 PM
 
Location: West Harlem
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It's really irrelevant unless you are one of them. You only matter to them if you are. For the rest it doesn't matter.
Not ... entirely true. And especially not with most younger people.
This idea makes me sad.
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Old 10-24-2013, 06:12 AM
 
Location: Newark, NJ/BK
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Please don't think that one of anything can make all the others look bad. It's like when one Black person is chosen to speak for, OR give an opinion for all the others. No one person would be chosen for another group like that.
Agree completely. There is way too much diversity in the black population for anybody's opinion to be the end all be all for black people.
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Old 10-24-2013, 08:53 AM
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Not ... entirely true. And especially not with most younger people.
This idea makes me sad.
There is nothing sad about it. It is not enough of them to matter what they individually feel. Their connections only help them.
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Old 10-24-2013, 10:40 AM
 
Location: Crooklyn, New York
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I have no idea of what you're talking about and I went to Wellesley. Everyone doesn't travel in the same circles or at the same time.
If you went to Welllsley, then no, you wouldn't know anything about Primal Scream. Jovan's is a different story. So is Joseph's, Breezeway, Opal Lounge, Sugar Shack, the Roxy, etc.
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Old 10-24-2013, 10:47 AM
 
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I refuse to rant constantly about racism but I must admit I have observed that.
People tend to totalize, and when they do, they always pick those few bad people as exemplars. It is even quite easy to observe that here.

It really does matter what every person does. I try to teach my students this above all, that everything they do matters and will have implications.
Then those people who totalize expose themselves for being pure morons, plain and simple.

Also, I could give a rats ass what whites might think of blacks. What a person thinks is his problem and his business. Not mine.
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Old 10-24-2013, 04:02 PM
 
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. What a person thinks is his problem and his business. Not mine.

Except of course when you are looking for a job or a business opportunity.
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Old 10-24-2013, 04:14 PM
 
Location: West Harlem
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There is nothing sad about it. It is not enough of them to matter what they individually feel. Their connections only help them.
The younger people are different.
It made me sad because I remembered that I know the older people are not.
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Old 10-24-2013, 05:08 PM
 
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Except of course when you are looking for a job or a business opportunity.
Even then its that person's business and/or problem. I certainly can't change the person, can I? No, I don't believe I can.

So I don't worry about things I can't control. What will be, will be.
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