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There's a wide variety of looks that different people consider "fat". I see Kim Kardashian as a little thick, curvy, but not fat. Though I'm most attracted to thin, fit women I see plenty of women who have a bit of extra body fat who are very attractive. However, I've never seen an obese woman I found physically attractive. In fact, speaking strictly of physical attraction, most obese women might as well be men as far as I'm concerned. That's how little I'm attracted to them (and I'm a straight male, btw).
I don't think people realize Kim is tiny,or thin and fit.
She is only 5ft 2in and 110 pounds.
If you took a fat person and put him/her on a desert island with only fruit from the trees and an occasional fish to eat, would this person not lose weight no matter what genes are in play?
Actually,it all depends.
If they eat 3000 kcal of fruit and fish,and don't exercise,then no,they won't lose weight.
Some people carry their fat better then other people do. I think everybody judges a person at least the first time they see them, it's how we make an opinion, or a reference point for our recall. "Oh, the short lady" or "the blonde", "the fat lady"
When I see somebody who is clearly over weight for their body structure, from a little fat to obese, I say to myself, "I wonder if they have a medical problem, or they are lazy and don't exercise, have a poor diet" I can not imagine anybody WANTING to be fat.
For one reason it is not healthy for them. That is why I don't find fat women attractive. I attach lazy, poor diet, lack of self esteem to them. Unless it is a medical problem, then it's "awe, poor lady"
jersey you're on attack mode what's your problem you can't read. One second you say big hips are great now I'm saying bigger hips than your man is always natural. And you act like you got a problem with that stick with one agenda....
I look 'fatter' than most men even in skinny jeans. I have wide hips and I'm tall, and most tall thin men have narrow hips so I'll always be 'fatter' than most men I date. It's not that big of a deal.
I suppose this hits me a bit harder than usual though because one of my reasons me and my ex broke up is because he was embarrassed to be seen with me in public due to my body shape.
Kit:
You said Jockey's comment was uneducated.
This is it....what is so uneducated about this?
In any event,its time for you to go back to English 101.
Gosh,you are slaughtering it with your writing.
I think that comment was highly uneducated jockey. I mean men are supposed to have narrow hips while women don't I mean not as much as a guy's. It's obvious in jean sizes if a man is fatter than his girl in jeans something's not right with him.
what do I say after I say the comment is uneducated. I say women are supposed to have bigger hips. Most women do.
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