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Old 12-30-2014, 03:58 AM
 
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I am 33 years old with male pattern balding. I feel insecure and feel inferior to date a girl. This is a reality. No hot girl selects bald men as a partner by choice. Some people sees some extra ordinary bald actors and foot ball players as sexy. This does not work for common people. All young bald men are harassed by young girls every time every where. I find some girls in Israel who are willing to date me. These are exceptional, however. Sorry for my poor grammar.
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Old 12-30-2014, 05:47 AM
 
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I don't know, but it seems from many of the comments I read on here among other places around the net and elsewhere, with some of the things I find many women saying about bald men, it's surprising and aittlle shocking frankly. I don't mean for this to sound like a silly question or anything, it's straight from my heart. But some of the posts to be honest got to me alittle, about how some people feel over something so trivial like hairloss/baldness. I really feel for any and all people going through or suffering with hairloss for whatever reason!! I am just stunned at some of the mean comments I have read. It's to the point where I find myself asking this sort of question. Do many women utterly hate and despise bald men? I just have to ask because it's been on my mind. Please forgive me if this sounds aittle wierd, but I just have to ask. Every human being is special and has so much to offer. I would just like to know whats up with some of these comments you know?!
I don't have any idea what is up with that. My husband began balding in his late teens. When we began dating in college his hair loss was very obvious. Regardless, I found him extremely attractive. Still do! If any woman rejected him out of hand because he did not have a full head of hair, I feel sorry for her. She lost out on a really great guy for the most superficial reason imaginable.

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Old 12-30-2014, 11:50 AM
 
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No. Just don't have a combover.
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Old 12-30-2014, 11:53 AM
 
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I am 33 years old with male pattern balding. I feel insecure and feel inferior to date a girl. This is a reality. No hot girl selects bald men as a partner by choice. Some people sees some extra ordinary bald actors and foot ball players as sexy. This does not work for common people. All young bald men are harassed by young girls every time every where. I find some girls in Israel who are willing to date me. These are exceptional, however. Sorry for my poor grammar.
Why are you only selecting for hot girls? Doesn't that make you just as myopic as the women you're complaining about? You're 33. You should be smarter than that, by now.
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Old 12-30-2014, 12:06 PM
 
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I am 33 years old with male pattern balding. I feel insecure and feel inferior to date a girl. This is a reality. No hot girl selects bald men as a partner by choice. Some people sees some extra ordinary bald actors and foot ball players as sexy. This does not work for common people. All young bald men are harassed by young girls every time every where. I find some girls in Israel who are willing to date me. These are exceptional, however. Sorry for my poor grammar.
I resent that terribly. While I certainly wasn't Vogue cover material when I met my now husband, I was hardly a troll. More than a few men thought I was quite the catch. I think there may be more problems here than the amount of hair on your head.

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Old 12-30-2014, 01:14 PM
 
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I am 33 years old with male pattern balding. I feel insecure and feel inferior to date a girl. This is a reality. No hot girl selects bald men as a partner by choice. Some people sees some extra ordinary bald actors and foot ball players as sexy. This does not work for common people. All young bald men are harassed by young girls every time every where. I find some girls in Israel who are willing to date me. These are exceptional, however. Sorry for my poor grammar.
It depends to some extent on the man's personality. I've seen women flock to bald guys. At one place where I worked, when the bald (young) mailman came to deliver the mail to the office building, women would literally come running from their offices from several floors. He was a great guy with an upbeat personality. If you have low self-esteem or a low self-image, you won't draw much positive attention to yourself.
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Old 12-30-2014, 01:15 PM
 
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no only the ones i date.
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Old 12-31-2014, 01:57 AM
 
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It varies. Being middle eastern, male pattern baldness is a big problem in my family so I've grown partial to it. I think some men look very handsome with a shaved head, adds to facial symmetry and such. Other men, particularly heavier-set guys, don't really look that appealing without hair. When looking for my fiance (arranged marriage) it is very difficult to find middle eastern men with straight hair with a lot of volume and no balding. The only reason I didn't consider bald men is because I do not want my children to lose their hair early if I have boys, since most of the men in my family lost their hair at an early age.
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Old 01-31-2015, 09:04 AM
 
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I don't know, but it seems from many of the comments I read on here among other places around the net and elsewhere, with some of the things I find many women saying about bald men, it's surprising and aittlle shocking frankly. I don't mean for this to sound like a silly question or anything, it's straight from my heart. But some of the posts to be honest got to me alittle, about how some people feel over something so trivial like hairloss/baldness. I really feel for any and all people going through or suffering with hairloss for whatever reason!! I am just stunned at some of the mean comments I have read. It's to the point where I find myself asking this sort of question. Do many women utterly hate and despise bald men? I just have to ask because it's been on my mind. Please forgive me if this sounds aittle wierd, but I just have to ask. Every human being is special and has so much to offer. I would just like to know whats up with some of these comments you know?!
My husband is partially bald and quite honestly it doesn't bother me one iota! The man is highly intelligent with a wicked sense of humor and I love him to bits, regardless of whether or not he has hair.
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Old 01-31-2015, 02:10 PM
 
Location: Houston, TX
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I don't hate bald or balding guys and would definitely date one if he was cute to me. I think that no one is going to like everything about everyone. Conversely, do not be put off by the ones that don't want you, concentrate on being the best you that you can be for the ones that are interested.

Oh, and no comb-overs, I think that's universal OP!!!
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