Attractive women vs Non-Attractive women! (blond, guys, girls, male)

[Texas User]

Originally Posted by Twinkle Toes

Infraction me if you must, but .... the OP's responses throughout this ENTIRE thread show his attitude towards women. The guy just does not respect women ... period. If he can't show some modicum of respect - even faked - he is not going to get laid. That is the bottom line.

I do respect women but you have disrespected me by calling me 'gay' when I am not. Hmmm.

[Texas User]

Originally Posted by wilson1010

One would think so wouldn't one. But if one did, one would be quite wrong. Women come in all sizes and shapes pyschologically and there are probably as many attractive women who thrive on mistreatment as there are those who insist on respect. That's why domestic violence is the number one crime of violence by a very wide margin.

I think that the problem stems from puberty when uncertain but attractive young women get disproportionate attention because of their emerging sexuality and attractiveness to older males. This creates a disconnect between how they feel about themselves and how they are treated by boys and men. The solution to this is to invite mistreatment and disrespect so that their feelings and the reality of their treatment are in harmony. Unhappy harmony, but harmony nonetheless.

Domestic violence is an issue and yet these women still stay with these men.

[Texas User]

Originally Posted by ladysovereign

Well it could be a self-esteem issue. One who feels special doesn't want to hang around with just anyone. On the other hand, someone who feels they can't be choosy will possibly be more open to meeting new people.

I know what you mean as I've seen some good looking guys who tend to be more introverted and just hang around their friends in the bars then the less attractive ones who seem to be going up to every female and asking for their phone number.

LOL! This too can go both ways!

Maybe those good looking guys are shy and/or waiting for a girl to approach them.

[DrinkMagaritas]

Originally Posted by Texas User

So how did you look like back then?

back when?? as a child?? dark curly hair cut horrably by my mother that didnt want to help me take care of it. taller than all the other girls and BOYS in my class. But most of the teasing was because of my last name and how silly/crazy I always acted.

[artemis agrotera]

Originally Posted by Texas User

I have noticed a trend that the women who are good looking (pretty face, slimmer body) have attitude issues and are more likely to play hard to get then the ones who are chubby.

Also, it seems like the chubby ones are a lot more aggressive in pursueing men then that pretty girl.

Any comments on this?

so .... you're saying you get chubby girls coming up to you all the time? Yet when you talk to attractive girls they don't pay you any attention?

[Wilson513]

Originally Posted by Texas User

I do respect women but you have disrespected me by calling me 'gay' when I am not. Hmmm.

Yea, I thought that part of this thread was way out of line.

[gallowsCalibrator]

Originally Posted by Texas User

The people who don't see the difference are the ones who don't what a tone and just a skinny body is. Although there lots of men who aren't picky either.

To some, all they see is a not-fat body and go for it.

Originally Posted by Texas User

I live in one of the fattest cities in the USA so the crowd is small for the 'fit'.

Move? That was easy.

Originally Posted by Texas User

Well if he doesn't have the looks the why should he deserve a good looking woman also?

Interesting, 'cause I've never been with a guy that I've not found attractive. Different people, different tastes. The guys I've dated have (somehow) been attracted to me, and I to them.

Originally Posted by Texas User

We all know what kind of looks are physical attractions and its not the chubby/fat folks, thats just reality.

Actually, reality is: Different strokes for different folks.

There's plenty of folks out there who go for heftier men and women. Fact is, fat used to be the "in" thing. It was attractive to be big because the bigger people were usually the richer ones. There was also a time where bigger women had a higher chance of surviving childbirth - which, of course, made them that much more desirable.

Originally Posted by Texas User

I don't think of women as a hot piece of body either when it comes down to a relationship but if we are talking short-term then its different.

Then why would you solely base your interactions at a bar (or similar venue) based upon the looks of the patrons?

Here's a tested and proven method: Join up with a club or group that does things you're interested in and enjoy yourself. If you see any potential mates, at least you'll know that the person has similar interests. And if you don't meet any, at least you'll be having fun doing something you like.

[Twinkle Toes]

Originally Posted by Texas User

I do respect women but you have disrespected me by calling me 'gay' when I am not. Hmmm.

This isn't about you being gay. You've disrespected the female gender from the inception of this thread. Whatever my opinions are on your sexual orientation has nothing to do with your disdain for females. You've proven who you are and what you're all about in your initial post, and confirmed it in subsequent posts.

[Texas User]

Originally Posted by DrinkMagaritas

back when?? as a child?? dark curly hair cut horrably by my mother that didnt want to help me take care of it. taller than all the other girls and BOYS in my class. But most of the teasing was because of my last name and how silly/crazy I always acted.

I thought being tall was good even for a girl? Silly/crazy in what sense?

[Texas User]

Originally Posted by Ozgal

so .... you're saying you get chubby girls coming up to you all the time? Yet when you talk to attractive girls they don't pay you any attention?

Negative, thats not what I am trying to say.