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I like to look, but not at work, and not in a well-dressed office setting. That's my world, sorry. It would be really tacky and it would be hard for a woman to be taken seriously IMO.
Also, we went to a harassment training seminar. Leering constitutes harassment. I don't think it should, but it does. It's actually more wrong for anybody to dress so provocatively that they would give you a reason to leer.
do you work in a morgue?
I haven't worked ANYWHERE In corp America in the past 10 years where there wasn't a daily display of yummy flesh.
I haven't worked ANYWHERE In corp America in the past 10 years where there wasn't a daily display of yummy flesh.
No. I've worked in professional services firms...downtown type jobs. There might be a secretary or admin that has a nice fitting dress or skirt that shows from her knees on down and that's about it...or you might figure out what's beyond a blouse but not a heavily unbuttoned one.
In downtown settings, regardless of the city, it's TACKY and you don't see it much.
I am going to my first NHL game to see the Red Wings in March. I swear if I sit there thinking of this I will come back and give you a hard time!
Hate to tell ya but at a red wings game........... it ain't likely. I've not been to one IN detriot but by the way their fans dress when at games here in Dallas......... the only chests I saw from one of their fans were the 3 guys w/ no shirts on wearing red paint and they were NOTHING to look at (otherwise I'd be looking ). Now, if you want to come see the red wings play the Dallas Stars I have two tickets. After the last game a few weeks ago against them we swore that was THE LAST game we would attend when detriot was in town. In Dallas you WILL see it. I promise.
Hate to tell ya but at a red wings game........... it ain't likely. I've not been to one IN detriot but by the way their fans dress when at games here in Dallas......... the only chests I saw from one of their fans were the 3 guys w/ no shirts on wearing red paint and they were NOTHING to look at (otherwise I'd be looking ). Now, if you want to come see the red wings play the Dallas Stars I have two tickets. After the last game a few weeks ago against them we swore that was THE LAST game we would attend when detriot was in town. In Dallas you WILL see it. I promise.
In downtown settings, regardless of the city, it's TACKY and you don't see it much.
In my profession, I have seen people get fired for showing the goods, it just has no place in the professional world.
I didnt make the rules, thats just how it is!
No. I've worked in professional services firms...downtown type jobs. There might be a secretary or admin that has a nice fitting dress or skirt that shows from her knees on down and that's about it...or you might figure out what's beyond a blouse but not a heavily unbuttoned one.
In downtown settings, regardless of the city, it's TACKY and you don't see it much.
True. I've worked downtown and it is a whole different ball game. The girls that dress a little "less" are typically in lower paying jobs in those settings. Every now and then you will see a professional female dressed in a very nice outfit that shows a wee bit of a hint of cleavage but not much. This is when you learn to dress in a more "fitting" way that still is very flattering but not "open" for every eye to see and ogle. The curves are there and all but covered up.
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Okay, who is the other guy that says they don't look?????
True. I've worked downtown and it is a whole different ball game. The girls that dress a little "less" are typically in lower paying jobs in those settings. Every now and then you will see a professional female dressed in a very nice outfit that shows a wee bit of a hint of cleavage but not much. This is when you learn to dress in a more "fitting" way that still is very flattering but not "open" for every eye to see and ogle. The curves are there and all but covered up.
exactly! I have seen clients wives have a stroke over how some of the office gals were dressed...... its all about the client and their $$$$ (and the wife)
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Okay, who is the other guy that says they don't look?????
I wanna know, too, must be one of those pesky lurkers......
Hate to tell ya but at a red wings game........... it ain't likely. I've not been to one IN detriot but by the way their fans dress when at games here in Dallas......... the only chests I saw from one of their fans were the 3 guys w/ no shirts on wearing red paint and they were NOTHING to look at (otherwise I'd be looking ). Now, if you want to come see the red wings play the Dallas Stars I have two tickets. After the last game a few weeks ago against them we swore that was THE LAST game we would attend when detriot was in town. In Dallas you WILL see it. I promise.
Men and women talk to my chest sometimes when they're having a conversation with me. I'm used to it. Doesn't mean I like it nor to I dress to invite the looks. I've never had anyone in the workplace make a comment that made me feel uncomfortable. Now what they say behind my back, I guess I'll never know.
...Years ago (gosh, has it been THAT long ) when I worked at this one bank...... we had a BLAST!!! If one of us girls happened to be wearing a certain shoe we had one VP that would say something but all in fun. I still like and wish I had my purple suede CFMP's.
CFMP's [LMAO] I haven't seen that acronym since the 80's. Thanks for the laugh.
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). Now, if you want to come see the red wings play the Dallas Stars I have two tickets. After the last game a few weeks ago against them we swore that was THE LAST game we would attend when detriot was in town. In Dallas you WILL see it. I promise.
) when I worked at this one bank...... we had a BLAST!!! If one of us girls happened to be wearing a certain shoe we had one VP that would say something but all in fun. I still like and wish I had my purple suede CFMP's. 
