Married single mom w/2 kids young. Now unsure of whether to stay or leave.
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Love comes along rarely. Sometimes it comes with conditions attached. You married her....you are the childrens only father figure. They need you too and one day they will turn around and hopefully, thank you for being their dad, because anyone can be a father but it takes a real man to be a daddy. It takes an awesome, incredible man to be a Daddy to children that are not hius....but one day you may find that not only do you still love your wife...but you also love those kids#
Maybe you will also have some of your own together....imagine the kind of Christmases you will have one day.......?
People matter more than possessions.......what you have is worth more than gold.
Take time out, anyhow, somehow....to spend time together on date nights. Have fun as a family.
Maybe your wife could get some work and help finanically.....it is tough...but you have so much to be thankful for too.
Godbless you and may you have an awesome Christmaas with your FAMILY.
You knew the deal when you married her so I see no reason for divorce. However, you should be having couple time and your wife should be willing to go on a date night once a week even if it only entails putting the kids to be early and having a glass of wine and conversation.
As far as finances are concerned, why hasn't your wife filed legal action against her ex? Most states require men to support their children even if that means garnishing their wages. Also, if she decided that you should be the only breadwinner, the least she can do is cut coupons, buy second-hand clothes, and find other ways to save money.
You deserve what you got for being such a fool. Your white knight genes just killed your life and you will never have a satisfying life with the shrew. Just cut your losses now while you have a chance and don't get attached. I'm betting good money she was never really physically attracted to you but she was attracted to your pocketbook.
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