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Old 10-22-2009, 10:11 PM
 
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There's this girl here where I go to school who I've been talking to via text and IM non-stop for nearly two months, now.

We're friends with some of the same people, though she and I have never met in person. It would be easy enough, though.

Anyway, we've developed a really good relationship. I'm pretty sure there's something there... She invited me to go to a Panthers game with her and her roommate. I love the Panthers and I really like her, so of course I'm going.

There have been times when I've been pretty sure she was implying that she might like me.

Yesterday, she sent me a text saying "Can you sneak into my dreams so I don't miss talking to you?"

I really like this girl and I'm pretty sure she might like me, too.

I'm just not sure how I should go about getting a real relationship going.

We've both listed movies that we want each other to watch and so we've planned kind of a "movie night" type deal. No date set for that, yet, though.

I just wonder how I should go about getting this thing really going.
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Old 10-22-2009, 10:16 PM
 
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How the heck is it that you are texting to someone you have never met? And why would you even do that?
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Old 10-22-2009, 10:18 PM
 
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Facebook does wonders. I actually met her once last year, but only in passing. Like I said, we have some of the same friends.

But we've done a lot of talking.
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Old 10-22-2009, 10:47 PM
 
Location: southwest TN
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Why not meet her for pizza somewhere near school?
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Old 10-22-2009, 10:51 PM
 
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Actually, since making this first post, she and I have already made plans to go see a movie tomorrow night.
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Old 10-22-2009, 10:58 PM
 
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Facebook does wonders. I actually met her once last year, but only in passing. Like I said, we have some of the same friends.

But we've done a lot of talking.
Oh the phone?
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Old 10-22-2009, 11:50 PM
 
Location: Kansas to Rochester, NY
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Actually, since making this first post, she and I have already made plans to go see a movie tomorrow night.
Oh, my gosh Josh, have a good time and don't blow it...
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Old 10-23-2009, 12:02 AM
 
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Alright man, I'll give ya a few things here...

1. You're pretty sure she likes you? Dude, read what you wrote, "Yesterday, she sent me a text saying 'Can you sneak into my dreams so I don't miss talking to you?'" Man, if you're only "pretty sure", well, I don't even know what to say to that. She's into you, that much is obvious.

2. If you've never hung out in person, be ready for it. I promise that it won't be like anything you expected. Sure, you know one another pretty well over the phone and through messages, but that's only a small part of things. Before you get too excited about anything, meet her in person first. There may be things that completely turn you off about her when you're around her for a long period of time. But, there may be something amazing about her.. you won't know until you're both together.

And finally, 3. Don't worry too much about how to get a relationship going. When you two are together, and everything is great, then things will take care of themselves naturally. In fact, you don't have to do a thing besides being yourself. If she likes you, and wants a relationship, and you feel the same, it'll happen. No worries.

Bro, I hope everything goes well with your meeting tonight.. Remember, just be yourself, everything else will follow.
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Old 10-23-2009, 11:23 AM
 
Location: Tennessee
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It sounds like you two have a good thing going with text, IM, etc. which is great, but I would wait and meet her in person, before I would jump into a relationship already, don`t ya` think?
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Old 10-23-2009, 11:36 AM
 
Location: Fuquay Varina
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It sounds like you two have a good thing going with text, IM, etc. which is great, but I would wait and meet her in person, before I would jump into a relationship already, don`t ya` think?

They met last year for a moment, isn't that enough? lol
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