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Old 03-25-2009, 09:30 PM
 
Location: Texas
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Hahaha Thanks Nova. The whole FWB thing is really starting to look like a winner the farther I get into this. It should be a crime to impose celibacy on ones self.

Really I am trippin cause the activities in the bedroom with the mistress were some of the best I have experienced. Plus she is still trying really hard to change my mind on us both being "single" through our divorces. Oh yes I am the fool for opening the email or listening to the VM. Still aaaarrrrggghhhhh!

 
Old 03-25-2009, 09:33 PM
 
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Yep, that's precisely what she's saying!
Geeze Louise. You know, I had not read any of her threads on her marriage issue...I had no idea this was what happened. That's wack.
 
Old 03-25-2009, 09:37 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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You'll have to tell me how I made him cheat. Sorry, I wasn't even there. In fact, I wasn't even on his mind, was I?

There's no winning here. Once trust is gone, it's gone. There's just no way to get it back.

I'm still trying to figure out what horrible thing you and bonehead think I did to deserve this. Not even our marriage counselor blames me yet you two do and you don't even know me.
OHMYGOD, I REFUSE to accept that you are this dense. So here I go, YET AGAIN... AGAIN, he had moved out and you filed for divorce when he actually "cheated" (which many of us just do not consider cheating, but I accept that you do).

Regardless, no one here is saying you are responsible for his actions - we are ONLY trying (desparately) to get you to see that YOU MUST TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOURS.
 
Old 03-25-2009, 09:40 PM
 
Location: Glendale
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She only filed for financial reasons...not because she wanted to....
 
Old 03-25-2009, 09:41 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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OHMYGOD, I REFUSE to accept that you are this dense. So here I go, YET AGAIN... AGAIN, he had moved out and you filed for divorce when he actually "cheated" (which many of us just do not consider cheating, but I accept that you do).

Regardless, no one here is saying you are responsible for his actions - we are ONLY trying (desparately) to get you to see that YOU MUST TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOURS.
I find your endless fight with an electic pole quite amusing... "They" say the smarter one gives it up. Think about it...

There's also a saying:

Don't argue with an idiot; people watching may not be able to tell the difference.
 
Old 03-25-2009, 09:43 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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There's also a saying:

Don't argue with an idiot; people watching may not be able to tell the difference.
I like that saying...

tried to rep ya...
 
Old 03-25-2009, 09:44 PM
 
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I like that saying...

tried to rep ya...
I did it for you.
 
Old 03-25-2009, 09:48 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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I like that saying...

tried to rep ya...
ME TOO

LOVE that expression - thanks for the words of wisdom Sierra
 
Old 03-25-2009, 09:50 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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She only filed for financial reasons...not because she wanted to....
For all we know, maybe he slept with the other woman for "physical" reasons, not because he REALLY wanted to
 
Old 03-25-2009, 09:53 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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LOVE that expression - thanks for the words of wisdom Sierra
You're welcome. Now stick to it!
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