How to approach my hot neighbor? (husband, kids, advice, partner)
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From the cliff notes in the original post why would you voluntarily spend any time dreaming about a guy who you present as being closer to a nighmare?
Get a grip, you act like you've never seen a hot dude and got a tuggle in your pants before.
Guy doesn't sound anywhere near to be a good potential match, if you're looking to just have sex with him, offer him up a slice of that pie and call it a day.
Get a grip, you act like you've never seen a hot dude and got a tuggle in your pants before.
Guy doesn't sound anywhere near to be a good potential match, if you're looking to just have sex with him, offer him up a slice of that pie and call it a day.
Yup.
Go up to him and be direct. Whisper the dirtiest thing you'd be willing to do with him and see what happens.
Get a grip, you act like you've never seen a hot dude and got a tuggle in your pants before.
Guy doesn't sound anywhere near to be a good potential match, if you're looking to just have sex with him, offer him up a slice of that pie and call it a day.
I would mind a slice of pooter pie or crotch cobbler right now.
Get a grip, you act like you've never seen a hot dude and got a tuggle in your pants before.
Guy doesn't sound anywhere near to be a good potential match, if you're looking to just have sex with him, offer him up a slice of that pie and call it a day.
Never this hot from head to toe. I've only seen them in magazines and this guy has been on the cover of some fitness magazines.
Anyway, if I don't see him at the gym, I thought of a plan that might work to at least run into him and introduce myself. I just need the courage to play it out.
i wouldn't do it....if he said he doesn't want kids...why would you even bother...you seem a little stalkerish....if he has seen you a few times I think if he was really feeling you he would have approached by now or at least made small talk....
I'll be moving into a new home and new neighborhood very soon and the most gorgeous guy I have ever seen just so happens to live in the next block over. If you Google "male fitness models", then that's how he looks like with a very handsome face. It is a small community of townhomes and while he's not exactly my next door neighbor, I can walk by his home daily if I wanted to. I mean, we even belong to the same Facebook group now. It's better than nothing.
He's also the same guy I saw at the gym when I joined about a month ago. The first time he saw me at the gym, he paused and looked at me right away. He looked at me a few more times after that, and I think he even made an excuse to leave the weight room soon after I left, but when he saw that I wasn't actually leaving, he went for the water fountain close to me and went back to the weight room across the building. That's when we finally crossed each other again, but the shy/nervous girl in me couldn't bear to look at his handsome face, so I looked the other way. As I was finally leaving, I saw him again as he was coming towards the locker room. He was looking at his phone, but when I was about to pass him, I saw his eyes looking up at me in an intentional non-obvious way.
I just thought that he wasn't single and just wanted to get my attention to stroke his ego as I've gotten a lot of that recently. Well, I was wrong. Miraculously, he is single. After the gym, I found out a lot of information about him thanks to Google. Some good and some bad. From the surface, we actually do have a lot of things in common. The only thing that really worries me is our age difference and that I have a child. I decided to reactivate my OLD profile a night ago, and boom, there he was. I fit into all his preferences except one big factor. I have a child and he put down "no" for his partner to not have any children. I'm 39 and he's 30. I actually thought he was at least 35. According to his profile, he does not want any children of his own. Good for me, but that usually means they don't like kids either (especially at his young age). He says he's finally ready for a relationship at this point in his life.
Anyway, it looks like he just signed up for OLD as I've never seen him before; I have been lurking off and on for a few months now. And he seems to be online a lot. Makes me somewhat jealous because there he is looking for someone when I'm here all alone pining for him. Oh, and he doesn't know that I'm his neighbor yet as I haven't moved in yet.
So, I really want this guy. For the first time in my life, I'm ok with having a casual relationship especially with him. If it leads to something more, even better, but to get to know him on some sort of level beyond Google stalking? Dream come true.
So my question is how do I approach him or make him know that I exist beyond a gym member and that I'm attracted to him? I haven't seen him at the gym for over a month now, so he doesn't have a regular schedule like me. I'm too afraid to message him on OLD and get rejected or get no reply, because I know I'll run into him again either as a neighbor or gym member. I feel like just going knocking on his door and make an excuse to introduce myself as a friendly neighbor. Any ideas? Sorry my post sounds very immature, but I'm feeling like a teenager in love.
Cliff notes:
-OP is crazy about the guy from her neighborhood because he's drop dead gorgeous.
-Based on her Google search, neighbor appears to not have the best personality, he's not relationship material, and OP and neighbor may be incompatible due to age and stages in life, but at this point, OP doesn't care because he's that gorgeous. (As long as he's not evil, a sexual predator, and hiding bodies in freezers.)
-Neighbor is currently single and an active member on an OLD site.
-OP wants to know the best way to approach him without being embarrassed (in case she gets rejected) as she might run into him again.
The easiest thing to do is smile, say hello, and introduce yourself. That's how we do it in the real world, at least.
Dress sexy and flirt when doing this. If you want to take it up a notch, dress sexy and tell him the naughty things that he can do to you.
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As I was finally leaving, I saw him again as he was coming towards the locker room. He was looking at his phone, but when I was about to pass him, I saw his eyes looking up at me in an intentional non-obvious way.
