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Old 01-14-2014, 02:11 PM
 
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It seems kinda homoerotic to me. What are your thoughts?
It was my experience that the guys who always did were typically the ones with the least to discuss.
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Old 01-14-2014, 02:12 PM
 
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Some guys aren't good with women. When they bag a hot one, it really is an accomplishment.

For the seasoned vets, its no big deal, so its not talked about really, unless discussing some things privately with your close boys.

Then you have douches.
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Old 01-14-2014, 02:13 PM
 
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What's wrong with boasting? I love it when my bf is proud to be with me and shows me around or some pics.
So you like it when your BF describes in almost clinical detail what you did and in what position you did it?
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Old 01-14-2014, 02:16 PM
 
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Some guys aren't good with women. When they bag a hot one, it really is an accomplishment.

For the seasoned vets, its no big deal, so its not talked about really, unless discussing some things privately with your close boys.

Then you have douches.
Yeah. There's this guy who was a friend of a friend in our poker group who would talk about his wife that way, a very slimy plaid jacket carpet used-car salesman kind of vibe. Someone finally said, "Man, I don't want to hear that." He wasn't asked back.
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Old 01-14-2014, 02:17 PM
 
Location: DFW
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It was my experience that the guys who always did were typically the ones with the least to discuss.
I learned years ago to always say NO if I had slept with someone.

That always left the people who really knew you wondering if you did or not.
Usually they assume you did which was Ok and helped my lover boy reputation.

As Bill Clintons says.... "I did not have sex with that woman" ! Yeah, right Bill.
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Old 01-14-2014, 02:25 PM
 
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I learned years ago to always say NO if I had slept with someone.

That always left the people who really knew you wondering if you did or not.
Usually they assume you did which was Ok and helped my lover boy reputation.

As Bill Clintons says.... "I did not have sex with that woman" ! Yeah, right Bill.
Yep. Say "Yes" and word travels fast. Because even if a guy has back-clawing, sheet-scorching, headboard-banging gorilla sex that makes the angels weep with envy, and she wants nothing more than to see him in a few days for Round 2, all bets are off if someone comes around to her the next day and says, "Hey, I heard you and Ron were making the beast with two backs."

And, if the same guy was just looking for a one-night stand and still talks about it, he will be known as the guy who not only has one night stands, but advertises matters. If you're a guy, there's just no way you come out ahead in this scenario.
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Old 01-14-2014, 02:45 PM
 
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This must be something guys do with each other.

All the guys I know develop a serious case of lock jaw if you ask them about their exes.
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Old 01-14-2014, 02:48 PM
 
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This must be something guys do with each other.

All the guys I know develop a serious case of lock jaw if you ask them about their exes.
Any chance I get to annoy an outspoken feminist, I will. I'll make sure she knows about all the women I've pumped and dumped in the past.

But for normal people, I keep it to myself.
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Old 01-14-2014, 02:55 PM
 
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This must be something guys do with each other.

All the guys I know develop a serious case of lock jaw if you ask them about their exes.
Guys don't do that unless they're total douches. That's what we're trying to say.

And guys don't want to talk about their exes, nor do you want them to. Why? Because if he's talking about his ex around you, that means he'll be talking about you with the next woman in his life.
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Old 01-14-2014, 02:59 PM
 
Location: On the Chesapeake
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Some of you will find "homoerotic" in what fork a man uses. What is your issue?
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