Dirty talk during sex ....right away or wait a few days? (date, women)
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Many people like dirty talk during sex, I guess it's a psychological thing, some sort of mental escapade during those seconds/minutes where pushing gets more frantic and "animalistic". As well as a build up when one is getting oral. A very mild example could be "who's your daddy", but I guess I don´t need to put examples of higher level.
But I wonder....how soon is too soon to engage in such behavior?
Women: would you freak out if that guy you went out with on a date and looked like a perfect gentleman and sensitive soul started dirty talking on bed later on during your first encounter?
Would you refrain from dirty talk out of fear not to look too "engaged" in the action in a negative way?
Another related behavior could be slightly aggressive techniques like hair pulling, cheek slapping, etc, what do you think it's the proper etiqutte during the first encounter?
Many people like dirty talk during sex, I guess it's a psychological thing, some sort of mental escapade during those seconds/minutes where pushing gets more frantic and "animalistic". As well as a build up when one is getting oral. A very mild example could be "who's your daddy", but I guess I don´t need to put examples of higher level.
But I wonder....how soon is too soon to engage in such behavior?
Women: would you freak out if that guy you went out with on a date and looked like a perfect gentleman and sensitive soul started dirty talking on bed later on during your first encounter?
Would you refrain from dirty talk out of fear not to look too "engaged" in the action in a negative way?
Another related behavior could be slightly aggressive techniques like hair pulling, cheek slapping, etc, what do you think it's the proper etiqutte during the first encounter?
The "proper" etiquette is to wait until you know it's ok.
BUT, a frequent piece of positive feedback that I get from women is that I don't wait. Those first couple of sessions set you apart from other guys. That said, if it's not ok (for the women who aren't into it)...you have that incredibly awkward moment of "oops, I went too far"
The advice? If it's looking to be something longer term, definitely wait. You'll have time to figure each other out. If it's a ONS or a casual/short term thing....do what you want. If she's not into it, she'll let you know, but you basically just chalk it up to different tastes. Not everybody is going to like the same thing.
Many people like dirty talk during sex, I guess it's a psychological thing, some sort of mental escapade during those seconds/minutes where pushing gets more frantic and "animalistic". As well as a build up when one is getting oral. A very mild example could be "who's your daddy", but I guess I don´t need to put examples of higher level.
But I wonder....how soon is too soon to engage in such behavior?
Women: would you freak out if that guy you went out with on a date and looked like a perfect gentleman and sensitive soul started dirty talking on bed later on during your first encounter?
Would you refrain from dirty talk out of fear not to look too "engaged" in the action in a negative way?
Another related behavior could be slightly aggressive techniques like hair pulling, cheek slapping, etc, what do you think it's the proper etiqutte during the first encounter?
Depends...
like someone else said--if it's a ONS then just go for it.
If you're planning on having an exclusive relationship with someone, I wouldn't do the dirty talk and other techniques right away. I think that's something both people discuss and then gradually introduce those things into the bedroom (or wherever it is you're having sex lol). For me, if all those things are done too early into the relationship then I find it more difficult to keep the spice and variety going all the time. It could get boring fast.
Many people like dirty talk during sex, I guess it's a psychological thing, some sort of mental escapade during those seconds/minutes where pushing gets more frantic and "animalistic". As well as a build up when one is getting oral. A very mild example could be "who's your daddy", but I guess I don´t need to put examples of higher level.
But I wonder....how soon is too soon to engage in such behavior?
Women: would you freak out if that guy you went out with on a date and looked like a perfect gentleman and sensitive soul started dirty talking on bed later on during your first encounter?
Would you refrain from dirty talk out of fear not to look too "engaged" in the action in a negative way?
Another related behavior could be slightly aggressive techniques like hair pulling, cheek slapping, etc, what do you think it's the proper etiqutte during the first encounter?
If I'm with someone, and it's gotten that far, he better know me enough to say what I want to hear, lol
To answer the question- I would say for me, it's definitely after getting to know if I want a ltr with him or not.
I don't do hookups
So appx. a few months in.....
That being said-
Nothin' sexier than my man telling me what he wants
Women: would you freak out if that guy you went out with on a date and looked like a perfect gentleman and sensitive soul started dirty talking on bed later on during your first encounter?
It depends on how well I got to know him before said date. Chances are he peeped my profile (back when I was on OKC) and reviewed my answers to the sex questions.
I'm fond of dirty talk, but it depends on the connection I have with the person.
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Would you refrain from dirty talk out of fear not to look too "engaged" in the action in a negative way?
No?
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Another related behavior could be slightly aggressive techniques like hair pulling, cheek slapping, etc, what do you think it's the proper etiquette during the first encounter?
No to face slapping. I enjoy other forms of non-vanilla/kink. First encounter? Depends on the guy and the connection we have. I've experienced some kink during first encounters.
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