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It depends on how well I got to know him before said date. Chances are he peeped my profile (back when I was on OKC) and reviewed my answers to the sex questions.
I'm fond of dirty talk, but it depends on the connection I have with the person.
No?
No to face slapping. I enjoy other forms of non-vanilla/kink. First encounter? Depends on the guy and the connection we have. I've experienced some kink during first encounters.
It's different for everyone. Ass slapping is pretty vanilla in my book. I don't even really consider it "kinky". But it's relative.
But the OP was more curious about WHEN to introduce these things, not IF to introduce them. The "safe" consensus is to wait...but then, fortune favors the bold. YMMV.
For me personally, if I tried it too early and my partner wasn't receptive, we probably wouldn't have great chemistry anyway, so I don't sweat it too much when it's not a "match".
I agree with the bolded, if the chemistry is right then it shouldn't matter when it's introduced
Dirty talk during sex ....right away or wait a few days? Many people like dirty talk during sex, I guess it's a psychological thing, some sort of mental escapade during those seconds/minutes where pushing gets more frantic and "animalistic". As well as a build up when one is getting oral. A very mild example could be "who's your daddy", but I guess I don´t need to put examples of higher level.
But I wonder....how soon is too soon to engage in such behavior?
Women: would you freak out if that guy you went out with on a date and looked like a perfect gentleman and sensitive soul started dirty talking on bed later on during your first encounter?
Would you refrain from dirty talk out of fear not to look too "engaged" in the action in a negative way?
Another related behavior could be slightly aggressive techniques like hair pulling, cheek slapping, etc, what do you think it's the proper etiqutte during the first encounter?
I think it would be best used right away, if you wait a few days it may lose the intended impact and could result in an awkward moment if the two of you are no longer together or you're out in public.
I think it would be best used right away, if you wait a few days it may lose the intended impact and could result in an awkward moment if the two of you are no longer together or you're out in public.
Um, what?
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