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I agree. Then again, he almost asked her to spend the night with him in a hotel on the third date because he thought she wanted to have sex with him simply because she asked if his family was still visiting. Turns out she's a virgin - so obviously that was not her intention. Maybe it's a good thing he's asking our advice every step of the way.
Good point. He is going to need us desperately going forward. Negotiating the virgin thing is going to be a killer.
I agree. Then again, he almost asked her to spend the night with him in a hotel on the third date because he thought she wanted to have sex with him simply because she asked if his family was still visiting. Turns out she's a virgin - so obviously that was not her intention. Maybe it's a good thing he's asking our advice every step of the way.
she,s between cars so she would never have been able to make it to my home town this weekend , she obviously asked about my folks being over as a way of making conversation
I agree. Then again, he almost asked her to spend the night with him in a hotel on the third date because he thought she wanted to have sex with him simply because she asked if his family was still visiting. Turns out she's a virgin - so obviously that was not her intention. Maybe it's a good thing he's asking our advice every step of the way.
Oh I get what you're saying, but what she doesn't realize is she's having a fledgling relationship with Irish Bob and all of us too. At what point is he going to learn for himself what works and doesn't work? He's not the first guy to be unsure of what to do, but millions before him figured it out through trial and error, it's really the only way to learn.
Oh I get what you're saying, but what she doesn't realize is she's having a fledgling relationship with Irish Bob and all of us too. At what point is he going to learn for himself what works and doesn't work? He's not the first guy to be unsure of what to do, but millions before him figured it out through trial and error, it's really the only way to learn.
im not the incompetent indescisive I perhaps come across as on this forum , I just enjoy discussing it here , if that's off putting to some here , im not going to tie them to a chair and make them read my postings
she,s between cars so she would never have been able to make it to my home town this weekend , she obviously asked about my folks being over as a way of making conversation
well she may be a virgin but shes not that shy
That's my point. She was obviously just making conversation - but you came on here and told us that she obviously wanted to have sex with you so you were going to get a hotel room for the two of you.
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Originally Posted by Liberty2011
Oh I get what you're saying, but what she doesn't realize is she's having a fledgling relationship with Irish Bob and all of us too. At what point is he going to learn for himself what works and doesn't work? He's not the first guy to be unsure of what to do, but millions before him figured it out through trial and error, it's really the only way to learn.
That's my point. She was obviously just making conversation - but you came on here and told us that she obviously wanted to have sex with you so you were going to get a hotel room for the two of you.
You've certainly got a point there.
am I expected to always read everything correctly ?
am I expected to always read everything correctly ?
There is a difference between not reading something correctly and reading something completely wrong and running as fast as you can with it. Let me ask you this - if you hadn't of come on here and had all of us tell you that it was way too soon to be renting a fancy hotel room on the third date when you hadn't been intimate yet - would you have gone ahead and done that? And if you had - how do you think your date would have reacted? I told you that I would have felt that you were trying to pressure me into having sex with you before I was ready - and I'm not a virgin.
There is a difference between not reading something correctly and reading something completely wrong and running as fast as you can with it. Let me ask you this - if you hadn't of come on here and had all of us tell you that it was way too soon to be renting a fancy hotel room on the third date when you hadn't been intimate yet - would you have gone ahead and done that? And if you had - how do you think your date would have reacted? I told you that I would have felt that you were trying to pressure me into having sex with you before I was ready - and I'm not a virgin.
I had the room for free and it suited me not to have to drive home late, I told her I had a bottle of champagne at a secure location after dinner and she suggested we go there but stated she wouldn't.sleep with me, I said that was ok , the eve was a success but I don't want to blow things now
I had the room for free and it suited me not to have to drive home late, I told her I had a bottle of champagne at a secure location after dinner and she suggested we go there but stated she wouldn't.sleep with me, I said that was ok , the eve was a success but I don't want to blow things now
So what do YOU think you should do next?
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