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Old 10-30-2013, 03:34 PM
 
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The last three women i've dated pretty seriously have shown signs of wanting a relationship. They all seem very attracted and we have great intimate times, whether it be a fancy dinner or a great day with dinner and movies.

I feel the problem is that I'm not picking up the signs. They always tell me in the beginning that they just got out of relationship and are not looking for another right away. I tell them that's fine and express how much I enjoy our times together and eventually can see us having a relationship. Everything seems to be on the up and up from there and all of a sudden she doesn't reply to my calls or texts like she used to.

My question is, am I waiting too many calendar dates to make my move towards a relationship when the feelings are fresh or is this girl simply not into me that way from the beginning?
Women play games and many of them liked to be chased because it feels good to know that you're wanted. A woman will shower you with attention, and accept your calls/invites, then "disappear" just to see what your reaction will be.

Also, you're not the only guy these women are talking to. Many women are being courted by a number of men, and so, if another guy comes along (even X BF) and she likes him better then you, then you fall back to 2nd, 3rd place.
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Old 10-30-2013, 03:36 PM
 
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The last three women i've dated pretty seriously have shown signs of wanting a relationship. They all seem very attracted and we have great intimate times, whether it be a fancy dinner or a great day with dinner and movies.

I feel the problem is that I'm not picking up the signs. They always tell me in the beginning that they just got out of relationship and are not looking for another right away. I tell them that's fine and express how much I enjoy our times together and eventually can see us having a relationship. Everything seems to be on the up and up from there and all of a sudden she doesn't reply to my calls or texts like she used to.

My question is, am I waiting too many calendar dates to make my move towards a relationship when the feelings are fresh or is this girl simply not into me that way from the beginning?
Ask them, they are the only one's who can answer your questions and tell you if it is them or if it is you.

Without knowing you or them personally it is merely an ill informed guess as to what the reason(s) could be.
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