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Old 07-13-2013, 01:22 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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My husband "The one occasionally known as Baldrick" quite often compliments women while we're out. Nice dress, nice shoes, nice perfume things like that.

I suppose it could mean that he's interested in them all though looking back at some of the women he's complimented? Probably not.

[written by 'Mrs Baldrick', in case you hadn't guessed]
Great post, Mrs. B! Yes, committing random acts of kindness and giving compliments to strangers is a great way of adding a bit of cheer to anyone's day. When I compliment a guy on his tie, or anything else, that's all it is, there's no deeper meaning to it. It seems kind of sad to think that some people might live in a world where compliments are only given if there's an ulterior motive.
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Old 07-13-2013, 01:36 PM
 
Location: Northern Wisconsin
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I could be wrong but the shoe thing may have been my comment. If I remember right, it was in regards to how someone could break he ice with an woman your attracted to but don't know. Interesting comments. Its not necessarily the greatest idea in the world, but it might work, and you're not likely to get slapped or cause the woman to summon the authorities.
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Old 07-13-2013, 02:06 PM
 
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it means he wants to give you some vitamin D.
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Old 07-13-2013, 03:07 PM
 
Location: Copenhagen, Denmark
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It's probably a mistake or a regional dialect. He meant breasts.

As an aside, last night i learned that the viking word - before there was writing - for vagina was Fudgh, or maybe it was Fudh. It's unpronounceable in the english language, but sounds something like "foot" without the t and the oo is more rounded like u in "full" without the ll at the end. Just in case.....
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Old 07-13-2013, 04:22 PM
 
Location: Central TX
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My wife is really into her shoes and she has a lot of them. As a result, I will sometimes take notice of other women's shoes and tell them they are cute if I think they are. Totally innocuous and I hope the receiver of my compliment doesn't take it the wrong way. I'm happily married and plan on staying that way!
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Old 07-13-2013, 04:32 PM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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I found that guys would compliment shoes they found sexy. My sensible black pumps would get no attention but a cute pair of strappy heels could garner attention. Didn't mean they wanted me, they just like how the shoes looked, and possibly how the shoes looked on me.
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Old 07-13-2013, 04:45 PM
 
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All guys like (dialed to "yes") all women as long as the woman isn't undesirable looking. For any destination a person desires to go, a first step is always needed. Complimenting her shoes is a first step.
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Old 07-13-2013, 09:54 PM
 
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First step? Shoes? I see what you did there.
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Old 07-15-2013, 04:17 PM
 
Location: NY metro area
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The times I explained to my husband how a male commented on my boots or heels, my husband felt there was an attraction on the guy's part. I think part of it is situational for me. Men aren't commenting on my shoes when I'm out at the mall. They're commenting on my knee-high/thigh-high boots or stilettos when I'm out at a lounge/bar or party/social event.
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Old 07-15-2013, 04:20 PM
 
Location: Long Island, NY
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If he gives you the once over and only compliments on the shoes, that's not a good thing if you are looking to seal the dill, my beautiful creature.
lol..you slay me jaypee
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