Making decision not to get married, procreate, and be celibate (pros?) (how to, women)
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at what age did you make this? I decided when i was 17 not to be in any relationships, have children or have sex, simply because they had been distracting me from life in the past, at that present moment and looked like it would in the future. (Also i really don't like children.)
Today I am 24 years and 2 years to finish my masters in college. I still have not changed my view on any of this. I know some of you might be saying 'your only a kid and you dont know what life is gonna throw at you' but I am certain 95% sure I dont want women or sex. Why? Ive watched an orgy in my life and a couple who openly participated in 'making love' I wasnt grossed out in any of them but i felt sex was something that would distract me from life. There have been a lot of women in my life that I have met (25-30) who seemed 'nice and 'date able' but they never seemed to step out of the boundaries with rules regarding roles in relationships.
Anyway even if I did change my mind, there would be no point in doing any of this as you'll just die. I think its selfish anyway for me to have children when there are many poor, hungry, and disease plagued children across the world
Write your own list since it is your life and your choice how to live it. Strangers on a public forum cannot provide you with any information about yourself you do not already know. Besides, who the hades cares what anyone else thinks of how you live your life? It is YOUR LIFE!!
What "boundaries" do you want a woman to step out of?...We all die, at one time or another, whether we have children or not, but if you've decided that children of your own are not for you, then so be it...there's nothing wrong with that.
One of the interesting things about life is how sometimes strong "opinions" we had as a youth soften with time. You just may look back years from now and realize that lifestyle was too severe. Try to stay open to experience.
What "boundaries" do you want a woman to step out of?...We all die, at one time or another, whether we have children or not, but if you've decided that children of your own are not for you, then so be it...there's nothing wrong with that.
a woman who doesnt ask for child support whe she divorces when she knows she can pay.....a woman who can look at herself in the mirror and accept her looks without makeup, a woman who can cut her hair without care of what others think about her
a woman who doesnt ask for child support whe she divorces when she knows she can pay.....a woman who can look at herself in the mirror and accept her looks without makeup, a woman who can cut her hair without care of what others think about her
HUH???? Why should SHE be the only one to pay if HE also wanted and created the children? You can't be serious. So she should provide all the financial resources and he gets a free pass?
at what age did you make this? I decided when i was 17 not to be in any relationships, have children or have sex, simply because they had been distracting me from life in the past, at that present moment and looked like it would in the future. (Also i really don't like children.)
Today I am 24 years and 2 years to finish my masters in college. I still have not changed my view on any of this. I know some of you might be saying 'your only a kid and you dont know what life is gonna throw at you' but I am certain 95% sure I dont want women or sex. Why? Ive watched an orgy in my life and a couple who openly participated in 'making love' I wasnt grossed out in any of them but i felt sex was something that would distract me from life. There have been a lot of women in my life that I have met (25-30) who seemed 'nice and 'date able' but they never seemed to step out of the boundaries with rules regarding roles in relationships.
"Distract you from life"? Um....sex is PART of life. A really GOOD part.
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Originally Posted by leerabian
Anyway even if I did change my mind, there would be no point in doing any of this as you'll just die. I think its selfish anyway for me to have children when there are many poor, hungry, and disease plagued children across the world
Dude, if you look at life that way, you might as well hang it up right now. You don't seem to get much pleasure from life, and that is really the whole point.
a woman who doesnt ask for child support whe she divorces when she knows she can pay.....a woman who can look at herself in the mirror and accept her looks without makeup, a woman who can cut her hair without care of what others think about her
Are you nuts? So you think that a father has no duty/responsibility to his children? Really? What planet are you from? Who raises the children on that planet?
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