Making decision not to get married, procreate, and be celibate (pros?) (guy, child support)
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there is fine line between wanting to discuss these choices and/or wondering if there's still anything left worth exploring, in other words, confused about their choices/status. but most of the time these situations sound like 'convince me to date.' In that case, who cares? It's only affecting him, if he doesn't want to date or be in a 'silly relationship' then don't have one. Simple as that.
at what age did you make this? I decided when i was 17 not to be in any relationships, have children or have sex, simply because they had been distracting me from life in the past, at that present moment and looked like it would in the future. (Also i really don't like children.)
Today I am 24 years and 2 years to finish my masters in college. I still have not changed my view on any of this. I know some of you might be saying 'your only a kid and you dont know what life is gonna throw at you' but I am certain 95% sure I dont want women or sex. Why? Ive watched an orgy in my life and a couple who openly participated in 'making love' I wasnt grossed out in any of them but i felt sex was something that would distract me from life. There have been a lot of women in my life that I have met (25-30) who seemed 'nice and 'date able' but they never seemed to step out of the boundaries with rules regarding roles in relationships.
Anyway even if I did change my mind, there would be no point in doing any of this as you'll just die. I think its selfish anyway for me to have children when there are many poor, hungry, and disease plagued children across the world
My fiance's sister feels the exact same way. At 32 she just moved back in with her parents. That's okay, but I'm disappointed since she has 2 masters degrees. Whatever floats your boat man.
You're going to catch hell until the day you die. The nail that sticks out gets hammered. If you're not following life's script then you are criticized. Most people aren't strong enough to go through life different from the norm so they don't. You are and you should take great pride in it.
at what age did you make this? I decided when i was 17 not to be in any relationships, have children or have sex, simply because they had been distracting me from life in the past, at that present moment and looked like it would in the future. (Also i really don't like children.)
Today I am 24 years and 2 years to finish my masters in college. I still have not changed my view on any of this. I know some of you might be saying 'your only a kid and you dont know what life is gonna throw at you' but I am certain 95% sure I dont want women or sex. Why? Ive watched an orgy in my life and a couple who openly participated in 'making love' I wasnt grossed out in any of them but i felt sex was something that would distract me from life. There have been a lot of women in my life that I have met (25-30) who seemed 'nice and 'date able' but they never seemed to step out of the boundaries with rules regarding roles in relationships.
Anyway even if I did change my mind, there would be no point in doing any of this as you'll just die. I think its selfish anyway for me to have children when there are many poor, hungry, and disease plagued children across the world
I've known my whole life that I did not want a life with marriage or kids. I rejected my first marriage proposal when I was 18. Another when I was 22. I have a year left to finish my masters and I am focused on my career and school. I'm 26 now and still have no interest in marriage or children. I do however love sex and there is no way in he** I would remain celibate.
there is fine line between wanting to discuss these choices and/or wondering if there's still anything left worth exploring, in other words, confused about their choices/status. but most of the time these situations sound like 'convince me to date.' In that case, who cares? It's only affecting him, if he doesn't want to date or be in a 'silly relationship' then don't have one. Simple as that.
This pretty much says it all. Lock this up and throw away the key.
Last edited by Raptor76; 02-11-2013 at 07:03 AM..
Reason: spelling
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