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And Im not ready to get married either. I just want to know if I am in the wrong for watching porn. I gave up sex for 3 years and I feel like I can watch porn as much as I want as long as im not going to ***** houses and cheating on her with random girls.
Personally, I don't care if my boyfriend watches porn. I encourage it, even, especially if I haven't been feeling all that sexual. A lot of folks, though, think it's cheating...in your head.
Probably time for an honest and open discussion. Explain you respect her wishes to wait but she turns you on so much that you need to turn to other outlets when she isn't feeling sexual.
By the way, do you return the favor? Or is that a no-no in her book? Maybe she would be in the mood more often if you spent some time focusing on her needs instead of your own.
By the way, do you return the favor? Or is that a no-no in her book? Maybe she would be in the mood more often if you spent some time focusing on her needs instead of your own.
I would just like to interject that I much prefer to give than receive in that department. Some women are just highly sensitive and if the woman in question is able to gain pleasure by giving pleasure to her partner then her acts of giving may be the same as receiving in this case.
First of all, please do not *ever* marry this woman. She doesn't want to have sex with you until you are both married, and you haven't had intercourse for three years -- but yet she doesn't want you to watch porn. She sounds kinda messed up.
I know you don't want to read this, but you need to dump her. If you are flirting with co-workers it sounds like you are already on that road.
First of all, please do not *ever* marry this woman. She doesn't want to have sex with you until you are both married, and you haven't had intercourse for three years -- but yet she doesn't want you to watch porn.
I know you don't want to read this, but you need to dump her. If you are flirting with co-workers it sounds like you are already on that road.
She's not having sex with you. If she wasn't doing anything I could believe it but if she is doing the BJ thing with you different guys (I wouldn't kiss her) in her past at some point the other guy would have done oral with her and for her to say it never happened it would be hard for me to believe.
Whatever you decide just remember time stops for no one. It's been 3 years now with her and marriage isn't in the future.. What's the point?? Do a you tube search on some of the Tom Lykis shows..
Oral sex is still sex. She is no longer a virgin in that respect.
Sure she might not have had vaginal sex but she sure could have picked up any disease from blowing those other guys and with her opinion that blowjobs don't count as sex who knows if she took any safety measures or what else she may have done.
I would seriously watch out. This sounds like a bad situation.
lol? She can very well to call herself as a virgin. There is long way from blowjobs to sex with a partner and penetration. I havent done blowjobs but omg I touched a penis, I am not a virgin anymore? Cheese after touching a penis I should go straight to the **** gategoria? . At least, my finger which touched a penis is not a virgin anymore .
OP if she want to marry you and you want to marry her you need to settle a day for that. Then you know if she is serious with you and you also get to know how long you have to wait. If she cannot say when, you have to think do you want to continue in relationship like that.
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