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Are you even listening to yourself...? That's fat by everybody's standards and your dating her doesn't make her any less fat; therefore, your numbers are quite a bit off.
And quit with those celebrity comparisons - about yourself and yours! If you want to brag, show us the real deal and we'll figure out if it has anything to do with those celebrities.
My error. She was 5' 4". But do a Google search of Boris Vallejo paintings and THAT is what she was built like. Super flat abs, perfect curves and very femininely muscular.
My error. She was 5' 4". But do a Google search of Boris Vallejo paintings and THAT is what she was built like. Super flat abs, perfect curves and very femininely muscular.
I suspect you are off of the weight. A 5'4" frame won't carry that much weight without a huge amount of mass. So, unless she looked like this:
the woman in the paintings look like a muscular man with boobs...gross. I have no idea why any man with a real penis would be attracted to a "man with boobs and a vag".
she put on 20 lbs and has many health problems not present 2 years ago. .
not very.
but the affections do not die so easily.
20 lbs is all it took for the attraction to go away??? or is it everything else with it?
I'm just trying to understand because I know when I get older I'm bound to gain 20 lbs due to aging..but in my family, its impossible for us ladies to gain more than 20-30 lbs even if we tried, at any age. But I would be devastated if that was all it took for a husband to leave me...c'mon now!
20 lbs is all it took for the attraction to go away??? or is it everything else with it?
I'm just trying to understand because I know when I get older I'm bound to gain 20 lbs due to aging..but in my family, its impossible for us ladies to gain more than 20-30 lbs even if we tried, at any age. But I would be devastated if that was all it took for a husband to leave me...c'mon now!
if its the guy and he puts on 30 lbs his sex life stops dead, but if the gal puts it on-- he needs counseling and medication.
if its the guy and he puts on 30 lbs his sex life stops dead, but if the gal puts it on-- he needs counseling and medication.
ha! nope. on men, 30 lbs doesn't look like as much since men tend to be bigger boned and taller anyways. 20 lbs on a man, probably hardly noticeable...I wouldn't leave someone I married over that! Especially if things are still going well.
I used to weigh 15-20lbs more than I weigh now and honestly, everyone that knew me then doesn't even remember that I was "bigger". They say "well ya, you were thicker but you carried it well so we didn't notice". Its just that you're saying 20 lbs makes a difference for you and if me being "thicker" makes a man leave me..that's screwed up. I'm only 5'4" and have small bones so to me, even 5lbs is a big deal on my frame, but since previously, nobody saw it as fat, I don't know why any future man I'm with would either. I don't even plan to gain that much weight besides during pregnancy, but I've learned in life that you really can't plan for anything anymore and you really don't ever know what the future holds, no matter how much you think you do. I think anyone at least 25 years old understands that much.
eww..gonna have nightmares over that pic..that is too much muscle mass on a woman for me
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That's fat by everybody's standards and your dating her doesn't make her any less fat; therefore, your numbers are quite a bit off.
