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Old 11-09-2011, 07:55 PM
 
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Ask for her number and/or e-mail pretending you may need to contact her about something school-related and take it from there.
Bingo. Was just going to say the same. That was my MO in college. I pretended i didnt understand assigned projects and would get the contact info of one of the chicks in class to "help me." Worked every single time
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Old 11-09-2011, 08:00 PM
 
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And they wonder why we don't approach them.
ummm speak for yourself buddy There is usually a problem only when the "friend" is much less attractive than the party of interest. I noticed that the unattractive friend becomes sort of a body guard that blocks all access to her friend. This is the moment when you call for back (a friend) to distract or keep the friend occupied..Gosh we were horrible...

side comment. Why wont the system let me rep sierraAZ? WTH?
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Old 11-09-2011, 08:03 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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side comment. Why wont the system let me rep sierraAZ? WTH?
'Cause the system doesn't like her. Too rebellious!
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Old 11-09-2011, 08:10 PM
 
Location: Homeless
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ummm speak for yourself buddy There is usually a problem only when the "friend" is much less attractive than the party of interest. I noticed that the unattractive friend becomes sort of a body guard that blocks all access to her friend. This is the moment when you call for back (a friend) to distract or keep the friend occupied..Gosh we were horrible...

side comment. Why wont the system let me rep sierraAZ? WTH?

They tend to think they are safer in a group. So therefore guy don't approach them. Plus it's easy to blow a guy off with thier friends around you.


More then likey you have to rep others some before you rep him up anymore. If the girl your aiming for & even if she thinks your cute too your still not getting past her judgemental friends.
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Old 11-09-2011, 08:18 PM
 
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This is easy. Just say "Can I talk to you in private for a minute" and then bam, you ask her out or for her number.
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Old 11-09-2011, 08:34 PM
 
Location: Fort Worth, TX
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ummm speak for yourself buddy There is usually a problem only when the "friend" is much less attractive than the party of interest. I noticed that the unattractive friend becomes sort of a body guard that blocks all access to her friend. This is the moment when you call for back (a friend) to distract or keep the friend occupied..Gosh we were horrible...

side comment. Why wont the system let me rep sierraAZ? WTH?
Her friend is about as attractive as she is, but I prefer her over her friend for some reason.
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Ask for her number and/or e-mail pretending you may need to contact her about something school-related and take it from there.
Good idea, although ugh I hate calling someone to ask them out.
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Old 11-09-2011, 08:38 PM
 
Location: Houston, Tx
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Query: what about getting my buddy to play wingman and talk to the friend?
That's what I was going to recommend, get one of your boys to run interference for you. I think every guy at one point has had to "take one for the team", which isn't so bad unless the friend is fat or unattractive.
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Old 11-09-2011, 08:47 PM
 
Location: New York, NY
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That's what I was going to recommend, get one of your boys to run interference for you. I think every guy at one point has had to "take one for the team", which isn't so bad unless the friend is fat or unattractive.
Yeah man, I had to distract a woman's mother once so my coworkers could hit on her daughter. Not a milf either, so no win-win for me.

Anyway, you should hand her a note: "Do you like me? Check yes or no".
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Old 11-09-2011, 08:50 PM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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Ask them both if they'd like to grab coffe or a drink. Or just ask the girl of your affection if you can talk to her for a moment... then ask her out. It makes no difference, she'll immediately go back and tell her friend what happened... so you may as well ask her out in front of her friend.
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Old 11-09-2011, 08:51 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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Good idea, although ugh I hate calling someone to ask them out.
It might be a cliche, but no pain, no gain, sweets!
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