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Old 11-14-2011, 11:37 AM
 
Location: southwestern USA
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That poll makes me wonder if the same percentage of people would think it ok to rip somebody off if they knew they would not get caught?

Would the same percentage feel its ok to run a red light if you knew you wouldnt get caught----how about padding the expense account before turning it in to boss if you knew he didnt care?

This gets back to doing the right thing----when you get married you pledge to be faithful to your partner. If you feel you need to run into the arms of someone else, than its time for counseling, frank family discussions, or ending the marriage.

Until than---stay true to your spouse-----it is the right thing to do.
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Old 04-29-2018, 09:33 AM
 
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Cheaters are trash
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Old 04-29-2018, 10:10 AM
 
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Cheaters are trash
Congrats Phil, 7 year thread bump.

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Old 04-29-2018, 10:15 AM
 
Location: Jupiter
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Is anyone truly shocked?

A lot of men and women are toxic, untrustworthy people.
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Old 04-29-2018, 10:37 AM
 
Location: Morrison, CO
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I don't believe most polls. They are notoriously inaccurate. That being said, those people still have to look at themselves in the mirror, and look their partner in the eyes. I can't help but think a bit of, or perhaps a LOT of character, and personal self respect are lost to them. The world is a lesser place without honor, and dignity.
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Old 04-29-2018, 10:55 AM
 
Location: Nantahala National Forest, NC
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Cheaters are trash

Are you speaking of my ex? I never had a relationship of any kind outside marriage but he did...

good thing we are divorced now. He can cheat on his 2nd wife...
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Old 04-29-2018, 11:13 AM
 
Location: Houston, TX
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I for one prob ably won't marry. It just makes it easier to part ways if one spouse is no longer happy.

That's how I look at the whole cheating thing. If you wanna be with someone else, just go. Leave for someone else is the better than deceiving them
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Old 04-29-2018, 07:11 PM
 
Location: USA
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PA2UK makes a great point, but if these numbers really are accurate, then it just goes to prove a point I made in P&OC: our society is in a moral decline.
Maybe... or maybe we just have more widely published surveys these days - of often unknown accuracy and origin - and more people who are willing to say how they really feel vs. lying because they are afraid of consequences, either real or imagined.

Long story short, these numbers seem very high to me, but by the same token, I don't buy the notion that "years ago, nobody would do stuff like this!" either.
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Old 04-30-2018, 10:26 AM
 
Location: So Cal
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Not sure who keeps digging up all of these old threads, but whatever. If the numbers are true then it's a sad state of affairs. Down right depressing actually.
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Old 04-30-2018, 10:31 AM
 
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I wonder what percentage of those polled were lying and the percentages are actually higher.
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