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Old 12-12-2007, 09:36 AM
 
Location: San Antonio
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Just wondered as we always read about married men having affairs
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Old 12-12-2007, 09:43 AM
 
Location: I'm not lost, I'm exploring!
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Women tend to associate sex with a lot more emotional backing then men do.... so when men cheat in a sense, they're letting their "second head" get the better of them; whereas when women cheat, it's particularly leading to an attachment to the other person, and another relationship, rather than just an affair, or a roll in the hay.
Know what I mean?

I know more women, that if they had an affair, they were at the end of their marriage, and I know more men, that admitted it was clearly a sexual distraction that was a mishap on their part, a ... lack of conscience, so to speak.

Disclaimer: This doesn't speak for everyone, and this could possibly be construed as very biased, and lump-categorizing gender tendancies in an unfair or unpolitically correct manner. These are the thoughts of the poster. This is a reminder that the opinions held are those of the individual and are not necessarily shared by the rest of City Data.
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Old 12-12-2007, 10:50 AM
 
Location: Ocean Shores, WA
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Yes, married women have affairs, and I'm glad of it.

Otherwise I would never have met my wife.
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Old 12-12-2007, 10:56 AM
 
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No - I have never have....
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Old 12-12-2007, 11:00 AM
 
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Originally Posted by Fat Freddy View Post
Yes, married women have affairs, and I'm glad of it.

Otherwise I would never have met my wife.
Now there's a happy endorsement Can you share, were you single or married at the time of the affair with your current wife?
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Old 12-12-2007, 11:15 AM
 
Location: Ocean Shores, WA
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... were you single or married at the time of the affair with your current wife?
We were both married.

We have been together now about 40 years.
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Old 12-12-2007, 11:24 AM
 
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Congratulations
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Old 12-12-2007, 12:03 PM
 
Location: Indiana
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Fat Freddy have either of you cheated on each other?
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Old 12-12-2007, 12:11 PM
 
Location: Ocean Shores, WA
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...have either of you cheated on each other?
Cheated - no.

Had sex with other people - yes.
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Old 12-12-2007, 12:13 PM
 
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Cheated - no. Had sex with other people - yes.
< insert pause to scratch head > ....... it makes sense now!
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