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View Poll Results: Have you ever had a affair on your married partner or serious relationship partner, and told or neve
1. Yes I have had affair and told partner? 3 4.76%
2. Yes I have had affair and did not tell partner? 9 14.29%
4. I told my partner I wanted to be with someone so it would not be cheating before I had a affair? 2 3.17%
3. No I have never had a affair? 49 77.78%
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Old 07-07-2009, 11:03 PM
 
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1. Yes I have had affair and told partner?

2. Yes I have had affair and did not tell partner?

3. No I have never had a affair?

4. I told my partner I wanted to be with someone so it would not be cheating before I had a affair?
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Old 07-07-2009, 11:05 PM
 
Location: Arkansas
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3~never had an affair and am almost 100% positive that I never would.
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Old 07-07-2009, 11:07 PM
 
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never have, never would
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Old 07-07-2009, 11:08 PM
 
Location: Naptowne, Alaska
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Ditto me either. My first wife pulled that crap and it sucked. I would never stoop that low. And the woman I'm married to now...is so darn wonderful...I would never consider it...ever.
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Old 07-07-2009, 11:30 PM
 
Location: Coachella Valley, California
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If it gets to the point of having an affair, it's time to end the relationship first.
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Old 07-07-2009, 11:32 PM
 
Location: Omaha
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Are we talking affairs, as in repeated cheating with a single person or one night stand type cheating?
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Old 07-07-2009, 11:36 PM
 
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Are we talking affairs, as in repeated cheating with a single person or one night stand type cheating?
I was thinking serious relationship or marriage. Don't think having a one night stand, or occasional sex with multiple partners that you are not seriouos about would be cheating. Maybe a active single sex life. Sure I guess it could still be considered decieving of one person to another. I would say though if you have sex with someone you don't know that well then it would be a open field for infidelity.
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Old 07-07-2009, 11:43 PM
 
Location: Coachella Valley, California
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If you are in a committed relationship and you have sex with someone outside of your committed relationship - whether you had feelings for that person or not - it's cheating!
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Old 07-07-2009, 11:46 PM
 
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If you are in a committed relationship and you have sex with someone outside of your committed relationship - whether you had feelings for that person or not - it's cheating!

So sex is a binding act of a serious relationship? That makes sense.
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Old 07-08-2009, 12:55 AM
 
Location: Brooklyn, New York
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1. Yes I have had affair and told partner?

2. Yes I have had affair and did not tell partner?

3. No I have never had a affair?

4. I told my partner I wanted to be with someone so it would not be cheating before I had a affair?

I did CHEAT on my ex when I was 22 or so.... Young, Naive, really not in love like I thought I was and just didn't care wanted different guys and to hang out with my friend's all the time so yeah it did happen......he most likely did the same thing every now and then as well hanging out with his little buddies at 21 you know
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