I met a woman on a dating site.... (married, older, internet)
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She's a cougar or lonely. She may need a young thing to spice up her life. The young keep the old up what is hip and cool. Think about it men her age(not all) are burned out. Or careless of what is going on. Or maybe she is immature. Then again maybe she needs you cause she needs to feel needed. Hence the cooking food for you. Go with what feels right to you. Don't listen to others...not everyone is on your team.
huh? being almost forty is old? she is desperate, somebody who sits behind a computer screen trying to meet somebody,anybody, is very desperate, get out from behind the computer screen, meet real people, enjoy life, get exercise, get fresh air! its healthier than sitting on your rear end trying to meet someone online, there are millions of people out enjoying life, he needs to get out and go meet some of them, thats the real, natural way to meet people, not the ones behind a computer screen, the woman is just desperate, she will take anything, even if it means a 22 year old kid, verrrry sad.
There are individuals of both sexes I would invite over for dinner from age 18 to well into their 70's. Age is only a number and I would be missing out on a lot if I was to limit my experience to only people in my age group. I always remind myself that everyone has something to teach me.
If I was in your place, I would take this person at face value and believe she is inviting you over for dinner. That's it. If something more develops, that's great but don't count on it. It's only dinner, one evening out of your life and you had to eat anyway.
The only thing that concerns me about this is her inviting you to her home on a first meeting. That's not safe and if this is her usual practice, it's a huge red flag. Maybe she's a newb and doesn't know enough to be cautious. Do her a favor and explain this to her!
she wants someone to take care of to make her feel "needed" and you fit the bill
I guess there are silly women out there! Maybe her kiddos left the nest and instead of wanting to be taken care of she wants to continue being a slave!
I guess there are silly women out there! Maybe her kiddos left the nest and instead of wanting to be taken care of she wants to continue being a slave!
No matter the age, some guys don't even like the potential of being with a woman who they think may only see them as a sex object. I can't say I blame them for feeling apprehensive either.
To the OP: she has said that she's just looking for friends to hang out with, so that leads me to believe that she's not looking for anything serious. If you're uncomfortable with this, just don't do it. It's honorable for a man to want something more than sex and want to be fully loved. Don't let anyone bully or shame you into doing it.
she met you on a dating site. she messaged you to hang out. she messaged you to come over for dinner
she just wants sex
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Maybe her kiddos left the nest and instead of wanting to be taken care of she wants to continue being a slave!
