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Old 08-15-2011, 10:28 AM
 
Location: USA
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Maybe you are butt ugly or just repulsive and he was dating you in order to raise your self esteem ... kind of like a public service project or something.
Thats cold!

He could be Gay, Small, Gigantic, Deformed, or have some sort of phobia. It is not likely you at all.
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Old 08-15-2011, 10:43 AM
 
Location: Tucson
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Judging by the title of the thread and the 3-month no-action I think they deserve each other sexually.
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Old 08-15-2011, 12:28 PM
 
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Hey guys...thanks for the feedback and the honesty....Honestly is sometimes the best therapy......Yes plan on cutting my losses with this fool...but sometime u just need to hear what you need to do reinforced by someone else.
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Old 08-15-2011, 12:34 PM
 
Location: SoCal - Sherman Oaks & Woodland Hills
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Hey guys...thanks for the feedback and the honesty....Honestly is sometimes the best therapy......Yes plan on cutting my losses with this fool...but sometime u just need to hear what you need to do reinforced by someone else.
Good for you.

You need to stay away from and stop dating those Inglewood wannabe "playa" types and the "Im in the entertainment business" bruthas.
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Old 08-15-2011, 01:09 PM
 
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Because it's been been assumed by most of society that most men crave sex. When one doesn't follow the rules, confusion ensues. Case in point.
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Old 08-15-2011, 01:10 PM
 
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Because it's been been assumed by most of society that most men crave sex. When one doesn't follow the rules, confusion ensues. Case in point.

Humans crave sex. It's not limited to men.
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Old 08-15-2011, 01:11 PM
 
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Humans crave sex. It's not limited to men.
But it is somehow unnaceptable for a man to turn a woman down for sex.

So if a guy turns down sex it is a complete mystery, there is something wrong with the guy, he should be dumped, etc. but if a girl turns down sex her desicion should be respected? Give him some time, respect his desicion, etc. and be happy to be with him. Relationships are not all about sex.

Just look at it the other way around. Imagine a guy goes out with a girl for the same time and wants to have sex but she turns him down. People would be quick to tell the guy that he should respect her desicion, he has no right to have sex just because X amount of time has passed by, and so on. Not sure if people would be wondering if she's a lesbian, she prefers her vibrator or shower head, she's married, she doesn't lubricate well, etc.

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Old 08-15-2011, 07:31 PM
 
Location: On the "Left Coast", somewhere in "the Land of Fruits & Nuts"
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But it is somehow unnaceptable for a man to turn a woman down for sex.
Yup, come to think of it, just sounds like another case of the old, "hell hath no fury like a woman scorned"!
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Old 08-15-2011, 08:06 PM
 
Location: Blah
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Need some input here.....After you been seeing a someone for about 3months...and you decide to give up the goodies and he turns you down.Would like to know from guys....why do you do that.....I mean do u get off on it....because personally i think its sick.
Hum...sounds a little how should I say this, maybe your guy friend is into different life styles? I would need to see some pictures before I could really give an absolute opinion.
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Old 08-15-2011, 08:09 PM
 
Location: Bergen County, NJ
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Maybe his goodies already belong to another 'guy'. HAAA !!!!
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