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Location: On the "Left Coast", somewhere in "the Land of Fruits & Nuts"
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Why do so many women always assume that every guy is "always ready for it", no matter with whom or when? And any gal who just thinks of having sex as "giving up (her) goodies" is asking for trouble to begin with! I don't mean to be rude, but geez, lady, men are at least as varied in attitudes and tastes re: sex as women are! So he's just not that into you, get over it... or at least back off the Cosmo articles!
Need some input here.....After you been seeing a someone for about 3months...and you decide to give up the goodies and he turns you down.Would like to know from guys....why do you do that.....I mean do u get off on it....because personally i think its sick.
He probably heard you refer to it as "giving up the goodies" and got grossed out.
I would totally leave your a$$ over something like that. You make it sound like you are giving him some reward or something. Its not a reward, its something that you BOTH should enjoy and for you to treat as "Here you go boy, good boy, goooood boy" I'd say eff you bch. I mean that in a good way.
it was 'figuratively speaking" of course.....No need to be hostile.....it's a forum. We agree to disagree and btw you sound bitter.......Not a good look.
Location: On the "Left Coast", somewhere in "the Land of Fruits & Nuts"
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Originally Posted by westcoastbabe
it was 'figuratively speaking" of course.....No need to be hostile.....it's a forum. We agree to disagree and btw you sound bitter.......Not a good look.
And whether you intend to or not, frankly you sound patronizing towards men, at least re: sex (which might explain a few things).
Move on. There are more men out there...normal ones...every experience with a wierd one just means you will appreciate a normal guy so much more.
I just seems like if she's got 3 months into the guy, surely she should at least try and figure out what the deal was.... it could have been a million things that had absolutely nothing to do with her directly.......
I just seems like if she's got 3 months into the guy, surely she should at least try and figure out what the deal was.... it could have been a million things that had absolutely nothing to do with her directly.......
But three months of seeing each other once a month? Or, three months of seeing each other once a week? Actually, neither is very much.
Either of those and I probably would'nt have slept with the guy. One month of dating, and then seeing each other a few times a week, and those two months would have seemed like eons!!!
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, so many people on this forum won't admit to any sort of error on there part at all.
