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I'm still wondering why he's still seeing you after not having sex for 3 months. But yes.....you need to ask him and not us.
I agree. Being intimate would only make your relationship closer, And it sounds like he does not want that for whatever reason. Cut your losses and find someone who is exited to be with you, physically and otherwise. 3 months is a very solid amount of time for 2 adults.
Oh, ok. But when you rounded first and second base, was his passion intense? I ask this, because he may not be a very sexual guy. Believe it or not, they do exist.
The attraction is intense....so dont think I was disillussioned with the relationship......but uh...obviously so.
I agree. And it doesn't mean anyone is sick either. We are not all carbon copies. Be fair and ask him. You might even find that by some miracle,
he might be considerate of your feelings and just want to wait until he knows for sure that you're not some psycho-sicko before getting stuck in some fatal attraction. Nothing personal. But then, having sex really is. You don't get any closer to someone you may hate a day later, than that.
There could be a million reasons.
Positive side: He really likes you. He doesn't want to jeopardize what you guys got going on.
Wants to take it slow. Nothing wrong with that. You can't get to know a person over 3 months. People change over that time. But if a guy is around that long he must like something about you.
Negative side: Has intimate issues. Likes you as a friend....only. Hiding secrets.
Talk to him. I had one guy who wouldn't kiss me after a couple dates. Finially I flat out said why don't you kiss me? He didn't want to be too forward to me. But by me telling him it's ok he did it. A very romantically way too.
How did he turn you down? Did he say he was busy? Did he say, Thanks but no thanks?
We met out for dinner. Decided it was time....Said he had to run to his home to handle something and would meet me back at my place...Of course, he doesnt call, but texts that he wont be coming over... due to having to get up early the next morning and other ridiculous excuses....
Maybe he has some disease or moral standard? Sure he isn't married?
I mean its not that hard to get someone to be strait forward if you are. If someone was giving me excuses I would flat out call them on it and say:
This no sex thing is not what I am looking for. Are these your values or is there something you need to talk about with me?
If he is too tired then go find another person with more energy. Its only been 3 months. And really its only been three months...find someone else. What is the point of your relationship if you never see each other or have sex? It basically barely exists because of life complications. Why not let it go and find something that is not as problematic?
take a bath mabye...at any rate don't bulk us all together, most guys are complete jerks.
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