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This is a fair point. Guaranteed, at least one girl in 3, who you kiss, will tell you that you are a great kisser. So most guys are "great kissers" well before they leave their teenage years behind. Means zilch.
Never asked her, she said it. I did not say anything to her about it. Just threw it out there in this post.
Most of the time no, but if I really liked the girl then I would after talking after the 3rd date. If she said yes I really like you, but I am not comfortable with that just yet. I don't run into that a lot, but if I like a girl then I would wait. Sometimes my mind is not settled on a girl until we have sex, because like I said things can change.
ok, you meant after 3 dates. i thought you meant indefinitely. if i was dating and i found a girl i was really crazy about i'd wait plenty. as long as we eventually talked about it and had an understanding. i mean believe it or not some women want to wait until marriage.
We're doing dinner Saturday, but before we go to dinner, she's introducing me me one of her friends or something. She asked if I wanted to go to one of her friends celebrations for something, I said sure. Then she said, well, you do not have to go just to appease me, we can just hang together she said. I said it wasn't a big deal. So, it seems, going to a friends thing for a bit, then dinner. I would be more romantic, but it is dead as cold winter outside. Really limited it what we can do. I offered to invite her over for date three, at first, she agreed, then she backed out and said she wanted to take things slow. Might try again for date six. I just find it weird her hesitation. Hence the feeling that she's not interested in me sexually. Though, she has friends, so I am not sure why she would still be hanging with me over her friends on a Saturday night if there was no interest in me sexually. So, yea, I am pretty confused in her intentions.
ok, you meant after 3 dates. i thought you meant indefinitely. if i was dating and i found a girl i was really crazy about i'd wait plenty. as long as we eventually talked about it and had an understanding. i mean believe it or not some women want to wait until marriage.
She's already been divorced once, so I know she has experience. It's highly doubtful she waiting for marriage. Usually, somewhere between date 3 and 5 the two people see if they are sexually compatible. Never experienced this need to "wait" and "take it slow" with a woman in her mid-30's. It just feels different and like I am good enough to hang out with, just not good enough for sex. I did not tell it to her like this, as I do not want to guilt her into it. I want her to have sex cause she wants to, not just because I want to.
She's already been divorced once, so I know she has experience. It's highly doubtful she waiting for marriage. Usually, somewhere between date 3 and 5 the two people see if they are sexually compatible. Never experienced this need to "wait" and "take it slow" with a woman in her mid-30's. It just feels different and like I am good enough to hang out with, just not good enough for sex. I did not tell it to her like this, as I do not want to guilt her into it. I want her to have sex cause she wants to, not just because I want to.
I am just saying.
maybe she was on the rag? i have some experience with women in their 30's and yes it didn't usually take very long, in fact the 3rd date seemed like the magic number. but listen, if you like her try to look at this differently. she wants to make sure things are "right" between the two of you and just wants to take it slow. how long has she been divorced and has she dated much since?
maybe she was on the rag? i have some experience with women in their 30's and yes it didn't usually take very long, in fact the 3rd date seemed like the magic number. but listen, if you like her try to look at this differently. she wants to make sure things are "right" between the two of you and just wants to take it slow. how long has she been divorced and has she dated much since?
What is the rag? Not sure how long she's been divorced. I wanted to stay away from past relationships for both of us. Usually they bring up bad memories. As for the sex, yea, usually date 3 or 4 would be the one. I like the woman a lot. Not sure why, but I like her so much, I stopped multi-dating cause I see/saw a future with her. Plus, I felt bad dating other women, as well as I did not want to be faced with a choice to make between both, so I decided last week, after the third date, to just concentrate on her. I just hope I did not make the wrong decision.
ok, you meant after 3 dates. i thought you meant indefinitely. if i was dating and i found a girl i was really crazy about i'd wait plenty. as long as we eventually talked about it and had an understanding. i mean believe it or not some women want to wait until marriage.
I don't think I could ever wait until marriage. I need some idea of how we connect in a physical way before marriage. 3rd date is usually a good rule of thumb. Also if a woman wanted to wait too long I would be worried we wouldn't have the same sexual energy. Some woman are just not that into sex. It is a small percentage, but they are out there.
What is the rag? Not sure how long she's been divorced. I wanted to stay away from past relationships for both of us. Usually they bring up bad memories. As for the sex, yea, usually date 3 or 4 would be the one. I like the woman a lot. Not sure why, but I like her so much, I stopped multi-dating cause I see/saw a future with her. Plus, I felt bad dating other women, as well as I did not want to be faced with a choice to make between both, so I decided last week, after the third date, to just concentrate on her. I just hope I did not make the wrong decision.
the rag is her period. you can always go back and ask the others out. maybe you are the 1st guy she's gone out with since her divorce and she's just nervous?
the rag is her period. you can always go back and ask the others out. maybe you are the 1st guy she's gone out with since her divorce and she's just nervous?
Just call it Aunt Flow. I have gotten woman I have dated in the habit of saying, "Sorry, Aunt Flow is in town." It sounds so much better than any other way of saying it.
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