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Old 01-20-2011, 07:36 AM
 
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Not "into" her bed. No doubt the TV is in the bedroom and they went ONTO the bed to watch it. He was making an assumption that because he was ON the bed, the situation would naturally lead to sex. She's not yet ready for that and he's ticked off. Obviously not much communication going on there but he should nonetheless grow up and accept her boundaries - he's not a teenager.
ok i'm gonna nitpick here a little bit, what the heck. but first "no" is no" let's not even go there.

it depends if there's another TV or not. if there's a TV in the living room and they can sit on the couch and watch TV and maybe make out or whatever that's one thing. but if she bypasses the sofa and takes me into her room and onto her bed i might be expecting a little more than some smooching. for me this thing depends on whether or not they had other options on where to watch TV. i think she intended to have sex with him and changed her mind for some reason.
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Old 01-20-2011, 07:39 AM
 
Location: somewhere south of Canada
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Good grief Why does everyone always have to be in such a hurry for sex. If the relationship is the right one you'll have 40+ years of sex with a 30 year old as long as you both stay in shape and healthy. What's a few more weeks
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Old 01-20-2011, 07:43 AM
 
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Good grief Why does everyone always have to be in such a hurry for sex. If the relationship is the right one you'll have 40+ years of sex with a 30 year old as long as you both stay in shape and healthy. What's a few more weeks
i guess caus it's so much fun. it's a very powerful urge and instinct. don't get me wrong i agree with you in theory and even morally but sometimes i think sex is what makes the world go round, not money.
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Old 01-20-2011, 07:45 AM
 
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To me, attraction is a huge part of the intimacy component. I need to be attracted to him at least somewhat in order to get intimate or even kiss.
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Old 01-20-2011, 08:18 AM
 
Location: St Thomas, US Virgin Islands
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To me, attraction is a huge part of the intimacy component. I need to be attracted to him at least somewhat in order to get intimate or even kiss.
Why would you even think of being intimate with or kissing someone to whom you're not attracted?
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Old 01-20-2011, 08:24 AM
 
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Oh and you already know you're a "good kisser"? Please! Your arrogance knows no bounds. .
This is a fair point. Guaranteed, at least one girl in 3, who you kiss, will tell you that you are a great kisser. So most guys are "great kissers" well before they leave their teenage years behind. Means zilch.
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Old 01-20-2011, 08:27 AM
 
Location: DC
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5 dates in my book is a good amount of time. Sorry ladies, but I don't wait past 3 dates. Sex is important, because sometimes you can be awesome with a person outside of the bedroom, but with sex sometimes all the chemistry can go out the window.

I know people are all for taking it slow, but lets face it if two people are going to be together, they will be together if sex happens on the 2nd or 10th date. This is just the facts of life. A guy will never ditch a girl after sex if he likes her. A guy doesn't leave a girl because she gave it up to early. Men are simple creatures and we stick around if we like the girl. Sex or not
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Old 01-20-2011, 08:32 AM
 
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5 dates in my book is a good amount of time. Sorry ladies, but I don't wait past 3 dates. Sex is important, because sometimes you can be awesome with a person outside of the bedroom, but with sex sometimes all the chemistry can go out the window.

I know people are all for taking it slow, but lets face it if two people are going to be together, they will be together if sex happens on the 2nd or 10th date. This is just the facts of life. A guy will never ditch a girl after sex if he likes her. A guy doesn't leave a girl because she gave it up to early. Men are simple creatures and we stick around if we like the girl. Sex or not
NOT????? you stick around with no sex?
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Old 01-20-2011, 08:38 AM
 
Location: DC
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NOT????? you stick around with no sex?

Most of the time no, but if I really liked the girl then I would after talking after the 3rd date. If she said yes I really like you, but I am not comfortable with that just yet. I don't run into that a lot, but if I like a girl then I would wait. Sometimes my mind is not settled on a girl until we have sex, because like I said things can change.
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Old 01-20-2011, 09:11 AM
 
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ok i'm gonna nitpick here a little bit, what the heck. but first "no" is no" let's not even go there.

it depends if there's another TV or not. if there's a TV in the living room and they can sit on the couch and watch TV and maybe make out or whatever that's one thing. but if she bypasses the sofa and takes me into her room and onto her bed i might be expecting a little more than some smooching. for me this thing depends on whether or not they had other options on where to watch TV. i think she intended to have sex with him and changed her mind for some reason.
There's only one TV. It is in her bedroom. Just thought it was weird she stopped the making out in the middle of it. That is all.
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