Girl/Guys, do you value morals when it comes to a relationship?? (how to, loving)
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My partner and I get asked out to places quite a lot and although I would love to go I can't because there is nobody to have the children, however he goes anyway regardless as well as going out with his friends a lot drinking.............. Has he got any morals ?????
Because it seems to me that the more baggage you have in your life, the more men/women you attract ...and sadly the better person you are, the less lucky you are in the love arena... please tell me if i am wrong...can't find a half decent person in the world anymore...but is sadly true I want to be positive , but sometimes it gets pretty difficult to believe in people anymore...your thoughts are really appreciated ..thanks
Unfortunately we are becoming a country with less morals. For some reason many would rather date a baby daddy/baby mama over someone who is a virgin or someone divorced several times over a never married person. I'm not sure why except that the people they are probably attracting are immoral like they are. Or they like the excitement of a person like that. I don't get it.
My partner and I get asked out to places quite a lot and although I would love to go I can't because there is nobody to have the children, however he goes anyway regardless as well as going out with his friends a lot drinking.............. Has he got any morals ?????
Because it seems to me that the more baggage you have in your life, the more men/women you attract ...and sadly the better person you are, the less lucky you are in the love arena... please tell me if i am wrong...can't find a half decent person in the world anymore...but is sadly true I want to be positive , but sometimes it gets pretty difficult to believe in people anymore...your thoughts are really appreciated ..thanks
Yes, of course I value morals in a person. It's important to me that we have similar morals should the relationship progress to marriage and having kids. I don't think there with a checklist and interview the person about their morals - we find out about each other from talking/getting to know one another. If our morals don't align, no big deal.
I am wondering about the Lady Turquoise name. I have a tee shirt with that name on it. It was given to me by a DJ who used that moniker. He challenged the audience to request a song and if he didn't have that song, the person would win a shirt. I requested the song, he didn't have it so I got the shirt!
The song was 'After the Lovin' by Englebert Humperdinck.
You're really talking about different things when you're talking about morals.
Are you talking about someone just sleeping around a lot in their youth? That's one thing, because you're really dealing with a relative, sliding scale. In other words, a promiscuous person is someone who has slept with more people than you have.
Or are you talking about someone who is dishonest? That's something completely different. Show me someone who lies about the little things and I'll show you someone who will lie about the big things.
Because it seems to me that the more baggage you have in your life, the more men/women you attract ...and sadly the better person you are, the less lucky you are in the love arena... please tell me if i am wrong...can't find a half decent person in the world anymore...but is sadly true I want to be positive , but sometimes it gets pretty difficult to believe in people anymore...your thoughts are really appreciated ..thanks
Morals and stuff are only useful if the other person also goes by that code.
If not you will get screwed...try to find someone within your code.
If you go to the church, don't expect someone who doesn't start to go with you, sure she can go with you but often couples break up because the system value is so different from one another.
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I want to be positive , but sometimes it gets pretty difficult to believe in people anymore...your thoughts are really appreciated ..thanks
