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Old 07-15-2010, 06:16 PM
 
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Thanks for reading. I am going into a new situation for my education and i was wondering how i could be good at attracting women and flirting? I am a younger male and I have been pretty poor at this in the past. I am really just listening to suggestions. Thanks for the help.

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Old 07-15-2010, 06:23 PM
 
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Thanks for reading. I am going into a new situation for my education and i was wondering how i could be good at attracting women and flirting? I am a younger male and I have been pretty poor at this in the past. I am really just listening to suggestions. Thanks for the help.
If you are going to college or a technical school you should increase your chances considerably for the amount of women that are there and available!
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Old 07-15-2010, 06:24 PM
 
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There's no magic to it. You attract what you are.

First you really need to sit down, be honest with yourself, and figure out what you want out of a potential partner.

Then from there, you need to be honest with yourself again, and figure out what you would have to offer them. Would that type of person be with the type of person you are. If not, then make changes to yourself.

If you are going to a bar...there are some basic type HELLO stuff you can learn. I hate to say this, but look at meeting new people like Selling something. It is similar. You are selling yourself.
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Old 07-15-2010, 06:27 PM
 
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I read this recently and thought it would be great for those of us who are awkward at starting new conversations. You wear a "whatzit." Whazzat you say? It's an interesting shirt or piece of jewelry or thingamabob that will inspire someone to ask about it. Sounds like a great idea to me. Now I just have to find me a thingamabobbie.
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Old 07-15-2010, 06:31 PM
 
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Well.. I hate pick up lines (some girls like it though) and I hate when men try too hard. Just relax and be yourself. It's more attractive that way. If you're too nervous... I guess that's something you may want to work on. Some girls find that rather cute and some...just annoyed.

Talk about herr. focus on herr.
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Old 07-15-2010, 06:33 PM
 
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Well.. I hate pick up lines.. and I hate when men try too hard.. Just relax and be yourself.. It's more attractive that way.
Too much of yourself isn't always good though!LOL......
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Old 07-15-2010, 06:34 PM
 
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I read this recently and thought it would be great for those of us who are awkward at starting new conversations. You wear a "whatzit." Whazzat you say? It's an interesting shirt or piece of jewelry or thingamabob that will inspire someone to ask about it. Sounds like a great idea to me. Now I just have to find me a thingamabobbie.
I don't even do it on purpose. I guess most of my TShirts qualify as interesting. I wore a T Shirt to a movie Saturday...and most the women working there asked me what it meant. It was just some Latin written on a gray shirt, with some dog skulls on it. LOL
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Old 07-15-2010, 06:35 PM
 
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Too much of yourself isn't always good though!LOL......
Remember to wear pants. Got it.
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Old 07-15-2010, 06:36 PM
 
Location: Duh mountains
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Thanks for reading. I am going into a new situation for my education and i was wondering how i could be good at attracting women and flirting? I am a younger male and I have been pretty poor at this in the past. I am really just listening to suggestions. Thanks for the help.
Put a pair of socks in your underwear.
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Old 07-15-2010, 06:37 PM
 
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Too much of yourself isn't always good though!LOL......
lol. i just edit my post. yes. too much isn't always good.
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