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Old 01-12-2012, 11:11 PM
 
Location: Sunset Beach Hawaii
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I am 47 fat and ugly but i love beautiful women. I dont have a whole lot of money and lack confident because i am overweight and not very attractive.

What are my chances of getting women like this without have to hire them for 1 hour at a time?


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Old 01-12-2012, 11:51 PM
 
Location: Southern California
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Start working out to lose the weight and build confidence.

[and maybe be a little more realistic about the women you will be able to attract at first]
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Old 01-12-2012, 11:54 PM
 
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You won't attract beautiful women if you think you're ugly.

You will attract women who are not self-confident, who are codependent, who emotionally depend on you to constantly make them feel better, and the relationship will NOT be healthy.

Be happy with yourself and you will attract others who are happy with themselves. And it will be a great relationship. Or sex. Or whatever you desire. First, work on yourself, especially your thoughts.
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Old 01-12-2012, 11:57 PM
 
Location: Ohio
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As long as you consider yourself "ugly" you will not an average woman much less a "beautiful" one, since you are not a multimillionaire you need to stay with women in your league.

There are a lot of physically beautiful women that are ugly crones inside.
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Old 01-13-2012, 12:39 AM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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You have the same chance of winning the main prize in the lottery.
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Old 01-13-2012, 12:52 AM
 
Location: Homeless
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You have the same chance of winning the main prize in the lottery.

If he won the Lottery he could have ALL the beautiful women he wanted.

Seriously though my best friend tends to go have women who are out of his league & get's shot down all the time. Find a women that likes you FOR you.
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Old 01-13-2012, 12:57 AM
 
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Sure, you could work on yourself, lose the weight, build your confidence...

Or, you could skip all that nonsense and marry a fat + ugly woman and buy her liposuction and loads of plastic surgery.
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Old 01-13-2012, 01:09 AM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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Or hire them for two hours at a time instead of one.
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Old 01-13-2012, 01:10 AM
 
Location: The western periphery of Terra Australis
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Three letters my islander friend:

GFE
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Old 01-13-2012, 01:30 AM
 
Location: Chicago Suburbs
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Confidence is everything to a girl.
Also get healthy. You may not be able to take the ugly out, but try to be healthy. You do t have to be a body builder.
You've got to date in your league too. Social class & attractiveness. You sound like "shallow Hal".
Seriously. Confidence raidiates to a womans instincts. Be taken care of, someone to protect her. It's instilled swap inside, even if we are strong independent women to "wear the pants". That's why some women seem to only date "jerks" or "bad boys". They look fearless and in control. So many of my friends (very beautiful girls) married guys less attractive because they were confident and took charge. I'm very independent and borderline feminist and I love my husband taking charge. We but heads a lot, and he says I'm the boss and wear the pants. But I think opposite. I won't let any man trample Me, but he's gotta show authority and be a manly man. Not some wimp like in "straw dogs". You can still be a nice caring loving guy, but kick ass and stick up for your lady.
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