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Old 11-17-2013, 11:07 AM
 
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Often is possible see such posts at forums. Like black or Asians asked white women ( in 95% targets is white women and answers are from them) for date and they answer “I do not date XXXX”. How, usually “minorities”, males find such answer offensive? If someone do not want you in his house because of yours cultural difference and skin color difference that do not mean he or she is racist. I date only white women of northern European origin and it is it. I’m not racist, I do not have nothing against no one. That do not mean that I must admit anyone in my house who would interest.

 
Old 11-17-2013, 11:14 AM
 
Location: Montreal, Quebec
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Often is possible see such posts at forums. Like black or Asians asked white women ( in 95% targets is white women and answers are from them) for date and they answer “I do not date XXXX”. How, usually “minorities”, males find such answer offensive? If someone do not want you in his house because of yours cultural difference and skin color difference that do not mean he or she is racist. I date only white women of northern European origin and it is it. I’m not racist, I do not have nothing against no one. That do not mean that I must admit anyone in my house who would interest.
Sure it does.
What's YOUR definition of racist?
 
Old 11-17-2013, 11:19 AM
 
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Often is possible see such posts at forums. Like black or Asians asked white women ( in 95% targets is white women and answers are from them) for date and they answer “I do not date XXXX”. How, usually “minorities”, males find such answer offensive? If someone do not want you in his house because of yours cultural difference and skin color difference that do not mean he or she is racist. I date only white women of northern European origin and it is it. I’m not racist, I do not have nothing against no one. That do not mean that I must admit anyone in my house who would interest.
If you don't want to date a _____ person because you find _____ characteristic physically unappealing, then no, I wouldn't consider you a racist or bigot.

If you won't date a _____ person because you "don't want _____ people in your house", then yeah, you're a raging racist and/or bigot.
 
Old 11-17-2013, 11:28 AM
 
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"If someone do not want you in his house because of yours cultural difference and skin color difference that do not mean he or she is racist."

I also like to know what your definition of racist is?

 
Old 11-17-2013, 11:31 AM
 
Location: 53179
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OP, where are you from?
 
Old 11-17-2013, 11:31 AM
 
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There's a difference between finding a characteristic appealing or not, and thinking that what people are born with means they will have a higher likelihood for a certain behavior.

The first is an opinion of what some one finds attractive, the second is bigotry.

There is a big difference between finding white guys with blonde hair attractive or not, and thinking that a white guy with blonde hair is more likely to beat and rape random women for fun. That is a real example if you look at black men. The first is an opinion of what people find attractive,

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Old 11-17-2013, 11:34 AM
 
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Sure it does.
What's YOUR definition of racist?
If I plan to harm a person in any way because he or she is different race it is racism. Now question is what mean harm? It do not mean ban him (her) from my house. It is same like say I do not want fat women hence it mean I hate fat women. I do not want sleep with them, I do not want kill them.
Idea that saying that you do not want date someone because of his race is racism is actually introduced to force white women to mix.
 
Old 11-17-2013, 11:38 AM
 
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If I plan to harm a person in any way because he or she is different race it is racism. Now question is what mean harm? It do not mean ban him (her) from my house. It is same like say I do not want fat women hence it mean I hate fat women. I do not want sleep with them, I do not want kill them.
Idea that saying that you do not want date someone because of his race is racism is actually introduced to force white women to mix.
I think it's pretty safe to say you're a racist.
 
Old 11-17-2013, 11:39 AM
 
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OP, where are you from?
From Bosnia. I do not see how it have to do anything with topics. I was answered a few times from German women that they do not date Balkan guys I didn’t find it offense at all. They like theirs or blacks or whatsoever. It is freedom.

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I think it's pretty safe to say you're a racist.
If it is definition of racist I’m proud to be. What actually minorities do is fooling as with label racist. We have to admit, already, billion in western world or we are racist.
 
Old 11-17-2013, 11:44 AM
 
Location: OCEAN BREEZES AND VIEWS SAN CLEMENTE
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If you don't want to date a _____ person because you find _____ characteristic physically unappealing, then no, I wouldn't consider you a racist or bigot.

If you won't date a _____ person because you "don't want _____ people in your house", then yeah, you're a raging racist and/or bigot.

Yeah i tend to agree with you. For one thing, your hormones can't help hide who it is your attracted too, and that is nobody's business, i could care less.

However if you choose to not want a certain demograhic of people in your home that you also would never date, if that is not a racist, what is it.

I have friends in my home of all skin color tones. I kind of like the difference in cultures and learning a bit about other cultures, you grow when you learn.

And amazing to find out in some clultures how they get along with so little.



Just because your not physcially attracted to a certain race, is no reason not to have this type of person in your home, you can still be friends. Unless your a racist torwards a certain race.
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