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Virode > I added the police reports in later so they were not there the first time you read my story, and yes i believe she could alter his life in any way she wanted to, but she dont want him permanantly, she just bounces back to him when shes single,or when she see that he is starting to talk to another girl, i have always told my son shes using him til mr right comes along for her, she has went to the cops once and tried to have my son arrested for steroids, well my son works out at the same gym as all the cops and they laughed at her , and she also brought my name up and said i was giving them to him, that pissed me off when my cop buddy came and told me about it, he does take over the counter stuff to gain weight but nothing illegal, he only weighs 142lbs
If that information is untrue and written in a police report she could be charged for filing a false police report.
Why in the world would any young man continue to have anything to do with a girl who tried to have him arrested? That is just not smart.
Perhaps your son could find a summer internship in his chosen field of study that will take him out of state and away from her while allowing him to earn some college credit. You mentioned criminal justice and state LE academies often offer internships.
Just be there for him. Let him know you do not approve of this girl, give him a few reasons why, but be there for him. He has to realize it on his own she is no good for him. If you force him to cut it off with her, he will resent you.
Lifelong > she never actually done a writtin report, the cop laughed at her and told her he was not going to go futher, he knew my son wasnt messing around with anything like that, why he would want anything to do with her after aborting his child i dont know, bad thing is this girl is not even attractive but i quess she has something HE thinks is worthy
ok i have a son..very smart,rich (from familly) and very handsome...so..the best combination for disaster to happen...bad girls are crazy after such type of boys,they want to have it all...
so..in your place,i would try everything legally possible to keep the b...away...and if i did not succed,i would simply move away..far away from her...i only have one son and he has only one future and i do not want to let it be ruined from somebody like this...your son would protest at the beginning,but that is life...millions of people are moving around usa,mainly because jobs opportunities,i would not hesitate to search a new job,start new in a new place...i have the advantage i am in different countries at home,so i woudl simply move him to another continent (in your case state or place..usa is big..so much distances between locations,just start new)..period...and she!!have a nice life b...!!
as long as my son depends on me financially,he has to follow my rules...that is life..and the ocean is filled with fish..after a time he would find another girl and everything would be forgotten...
Bub > amen brother ! well i cant move because of the business i have built for 21 years, but he could be forced to move 200 miles away with a close friend that has already asked him to come and live to go to college there, but do you think even though there apart (against there wishes) when he came back for summer or just to visit it would just happen all over again ?
He is goign to be a police officer? Doesn't sound like he has the judgement;matruity or control of his life to be one;at least for long. Your abuse is broguht on as you describe it by his choice basically. You need to hold him responsible for it.
Texdav > some people i know say cut him off ,not because of her, but for the bad decisions he makes in seeing her if that makes since, what do you mean hold him responsible for it exactly ?
Send him away to college to get him out of her sphere of influence, even for a little while. The problem is he has been with her thru his very formative relationship years and probably was his first gf and he doens't know any better. He needs know better. I understand this because my own 19 year old son went through something similar. He knew it was a bad relationship and didn't even like spending time with his gf but he did it anyway and might never have ended things with her if she hadn't met someone else and dumped him first. Thank god.
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