Friendship issues--Crazy or not?

[virgode]

Originally Posted by Le Lune

Most likely. But is it selfish of me to demand an apology if she doesn't offer one?

No not selfish, but I wouldn't expect or demand it, she doesn't think she's done anything wrong and thats not for you to correct. All you can do is accept this is what you can expect when she drinks. Keep your feelings about what she should or shouldn't do to yourself, she's put a boundary on the friendship.

[Le Lune]

Originally Posted by Avienne

Bottom line is, people tend to appreciate the opportunity to save face. If your goal is to save the friendship, give her the opportunity to explain her reaction and also apologize to you. If you ever have need to express your concerns again (to anyone, really), save it for a time when it's just the two of you with no booze involved, and you can really talk.

I appreciate such an insight post and it clarifies her point of view as well

An update on this is that I called her up and she apologize for her outburst and mis-communication and everything. So everything is fine and dandy. Who said early 20 years old can't be mature?

But thank you so much for your help! I really want to rep your post a kajillion times...but I'm not sure how the rep thing works as it's asking me to spread it around some more...

Much luffles~